I have had a couple of very bad days.

Last Friday, my husband and I blithely set off for our first sonogram.  Since I'm only 7 weeks pregnant (according to the calendar, mind you), it occurred to me that this one was a lot earlier than with my first pregnancy.  But my doctor or her aide (since I had only talked to the aide so far, not the doctor!) hadn't mentioned any concerns about the pregnancy to me, so it never occurred to me to be worried.