Now here's some advice to dispense. Lilo and Gerry Leeds have been married for 56 years and have written a book, Wonderful Marriage. They shared the secrets of their long and satisfying marriage with MSN Lifestyle's Nicole Yorio:

Be your ideal spouse. If someone asked you what you wanted from your partner, you'd quickly rattle off a long list of qualities. But a great relationship starts with you, the Leedses say. "It's my job to be the kind of partner I want," Lilo says. "I think, Instead of criticizing, what can I do differently? or What am I doing that is upsetting him?" Once you commit to improving you, you'll notice a difference in your relationship — and you'll be motivated to improve even more...

Ask for what you need instead of complaining about what is wrong. If something bothers you, it's better to get it off your chest rather than fume. "But there's a big difference between 'We never go out to dinner' and 'I'd like to go out for dinner,'" Lilo says. "Asking sets a positive tone, and is more likely to get results."

Other more obvious pieces of advice is to think before speaking, or blow off steam before approaching your partner with an issue. The other is to keep the romance going like holding hands and taking trips together.

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