so, the other forum i spend too many working hours checking obsessively is a work related one, cheftalk.com.
there have been a couple of recent posts from some of my fellow (male) chefs about parents bringing their children into fine dining restaurants, as well as some sneering remarks about feeding children chicken fingers and pasta.
http://www.cheftalk.com/forums/late-night-cafe-non-food-cooking-discussion/42497-magnum-opus-touchy- subject.html
and:
http://www.cheftalk.com/forums/professional-chef-s-forum/42473-people-their-stupid-kids.html