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Indigo Children

Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 03:45:46 AM PDT

Jenny McCarthy, actress and author, believes that her young son Evan, who is autistic, is a "Crystal Child" and she is an "Indigo Mom", according to a recent blurb on Celebrity Baby Blog.  

What is an Indigo/Crystal Child?  According to Wiki:

The Indigo Child movement believes that the children in question are born with an empathic connection to Earth and others' thoughts......The Indigo Child movement therefore encourages parents to support those children in whom can be seen traits which are often labeled as negative by mainstream authorities but as positive by the Indigo Child.  Adherents believe that this new type of child has come forward for a reason; most often suggested is that they will improve the world in some way.

Some attributes of Indigo Children according to Carroll and Tober, authors of The Indigo Children:

They come into the world with a feeling of royalty.
They have difficulty with absolute authority.
They seem antisocial unless they are with their own kind. If there are no others of like consciousness around them, they often turn inward, feeling like no other human understands them. School is often extremely difficult for them socially.

   
More information here at Starchild and McCarthy's own website, indigomoms.com.

Of course, this is not without controversy:

Skeptics point out that the Indigo movement seems to lack verifiable evidence to support its claims....

Some skeptics are concerned that Indigo children might really be children who have special learning needs. They may have autism, Asperger's syndrome, non-verbal or even behavioural learning issues; by labeling children as "Indigo" such children do not get the services they need to succeed.

Critics have also voiced concern that teaching children that they are Indigo will encourage children to adopt sociopathic behaviors, such as a sense of human superiority, alienation, and a "bizarre" paranormal identity.

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After quite a few skeptical comments on this post on CBB, a commenter who claims to be friends with McCarthy assured readers that Jenny's child is receiving therapy also:

I thought you all should know that I happen to know that Jenny does take it very seriously and has Evan in a really great program at UCLA for autistic kids and it has nothing to do with the indigo/crystal thing.  She is, from what I have seen, an absolutely wonderful, loving mom of her kid.....She's removing the 'there's something broken in my child and adding 'there is something special in my child that others don't see.'

I can understand the need to frame your child's challenges in a spiritual way, to give such challenges meaning and purpose.  That is admirable and beautiful.  In this way, I don't see this Indigo Child movement as any different than the message of many traditional religions.  

From what I understand, I don't see any harm in this movement or any religion, as long as parents of children who need professional care don't substitute these beliefs for evidence-based treatment from qualified professionals, but rather use them in a complementary fashion.

Tags: autism, indigo children, Jenny McCarthy (all tags)

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