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Weekend Open Thread

Fri Apr 25, 2008 at 06:18:00 AM PDT

Check out this Today story about the world's youngest college professor. Alia Sabur is a 19-year-old professor at Konkuk University in Korea. The New York native started reading at 8-months-old and attended college when she was 10.

And I fretted about Ari starting preschool too young! Still, Sabur seems to be a very mature and well-adjusted adult.  

Old Car Vs. New Hybrid: With all this talk surrounding the new "green" economy and the jobs it will spur, something I have always wondered if we will become less environmentally friendly in buying more stuff -- like a hybrid car. As it turns out, we may indeed win -- and Mother Nature will thank us -- in upgrading sputtering, old cars for a hybrid, according to Pablo Paster of Salon's "Ask Pablo" green column.

This is a question I have gotten a lot, and one that I have wondered about myself. You see a modern-day tie-dye aficionado puttering along the highway in his VW van with black smoke spewing out the back, and you have to wonder if we wouldn't all be better off if he traded it in for a Prius. The consensus among some environmentalists -- perhaps ones who drive late-'60s Mustangs -- seems to be that driving your old car creates significantly less pollution than the manufacture of a new car. I wish it were that easy...

Given that your car is already built, we can write off the energy used in making it. We can also write off the emissions that it has already created from burning gasoline. That means that over the next 116,000 miles, your car's greenhouse gas emissions will essentially break even with the emissions from the production and use of a Prius. I'm guessing your 22-year-old car probably has over 200,000 miles on it. If you're lucky, you can get another few years out of it. So if you can afford a new Prius, you are better off switching now. And think of the fewer hassles of owning a new car.

Another thing to keep in mind are the nitrogen oxides produced by cars. Nitrogen oxides are a key component of smog, which as we know contributes to asthma, heart disease and many other health and environmental concerns. In the early '80s, the nitrogen oxide standard for cars was 1 gram per mile, or 12 kg per year, whereas cars are now required to achieve lower than 0.4 grams per mile, or 4.8 kg per year. Cars older than your Mercedes are even dirtier. A new vehicle like a Prius can reduce toxic air emissions of pre-catalytic converter cars by more than 80 percent.

Of course, the answer is not so easy in comparing an "old" newish car like an SUV and wanting to upgrade to a Prius. In that case, the owner would simply pass on the burden to another consumer unless s/he scraps it.

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Celebrity Gossip Break: Three years after a lavish wedding that generated negative press, former View co-host Star Jones filed for divorce from banker husband Al Reynolds, according to the Associated Press.

Jennifer Lopez will star in a reality show about her new life with twins, according to People online. The show, which still doesn't have a release date, will air on TLC.

Tom Cruise will return as a guest on the Oprah show, his first time since jumping on her couch and acting like a nut, according to MSN's "The Scoop."

In Health News: Dark-green leafy veggies, which are a source of vitamin K, help prevent varicose veins that afflict 30 percent of pregnant women, according to Parenting magazine. The highest source of K is kale, followed by spinach, broccoli, green-leaf lettuces and parsley.

What else is in the news? Have a good weekend all!

Tags: Alia Sabur, New York, Today Show, Korea (all tags)

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  • I got my hat (0 / 0)

    (and book) yesterday from Australia.  I love the chicken book (what a non-sensical ending), and the hat will fit him for another few months, so :

    Thank you, Rachel!!!!!!!!!

  • A shout out for the Ford Escape Hybrid (0 / 0)

    We bought our Escape Hybrid last year, mostly to help with my back problems (no more kneeling in the parking lot loading ds into the carseat - woo!). I loved it immediately. Not only is the driver's seat genius for those of us with lower back problems, I love the handling, it's smallish size, and getting 30 - 32 mpg.

    I don't really care about cars (I kept a honda accord for 16 years), but I love this car.

    • Love ours too (0 / 0)

      We got ours in early 2006 because we needed more cargo space than our 10yo Civic had, but wanted something with about the same mpg and footprint (Escape and Civic are the same length, which makes parking in the city less of a headache).  

      We ran the # before we bought it and figured that with the tax rebate and gas savings it would be break even compared to non-hybrid after about 2 years.  However, thanks to AMT in 2006 we didn't get the rebate.  Of course now that gas is looking to hit $4/gallon I think we might break even soon anyway.  Just trying to find a silver lining here...

      --R

  • Good post (0 / 0)

    We bought a Jeep in 1987 when my son was in diapers.  He is now 22 and this old junky vehicle has been his since he was 16.  I felt proud that we recycled rather than buy him a new car.

    We also have a Chevy Suburban that is of the same late 80's era.  We inherited it when my FIL died.  We only use it to haul junk and and pull a boat a couple of times a year.

    Our philosophy has been to drive to death.

    • We have a 1988 (0 / 0)

      Chevy van that we still use from time to time.  We get it out every couple of weeks to do "big" grocery shopping.  And it really does have a lot of sentimental value...we took a lot of road trips in that van!

  • I'm still (0 / 0)

    processing the information my daughter and her fiance got from Cleveland Clinic on Wednesday.  Their recommendations sounded drastic, but upon doing a bit of research and giving it all some thought, I think we're coming to terms with it...and it actually isn't bad news.

    The recommendation is that he have his esophagus replaced with a graft made from a loop of small intestine.  They also recommend a kidney/pancreas transplant instead of his just receiving another kidney.  The good news that required a bit of sorting through all of this to get at is that his stomach/bowel motility is not that bad...nothing at all what we feared.  His esophagus, though, has lost all motility, though.  This had never even been notated on all the testing that he had had done here.  

    Before he can undergo these surgeries, however, he needs to go back on the feeding tube and put on some weight.  His physical rehab is going well and the additional weight gain from the tube should put him in very good shape.  He's going to need to be in the best shape we can get him in to go through all of this.

    Thank you all so much for your continued good thoughts.

    • Oh my ....I"m so sorry (0 / 0)

      for your daughter and fiance and your fmaily to have to go through this. I"m keeping you in my thoughts.

    • a lot (0 / 0)

      That is a lot to process.

      Can I ask, I know he is diabetic, but how did the stomach-bowel motility problems happen?  Is that a complication of the diabetes or a separate issue?

      Will the pancreas transplant help with his diabetes?

      • Diabetics (0 / 0)

        incur a lot of nerve damage.  We usually hear about the kind that causes them to lose limbs, but they also suffer from damage to the autonomic nervous system.  The autonomic nervous system controls all of the "automatic" functions in our bodies.  Digestion is one of those "automatic" functions.  This kind of autonomic damage causes the digestive tract to slow down, and in some instances almost completely shut down.  And ofcourse, when a diabetic is unable to eat and digest food, the diabetes becomes very difficult, if not impossible to control.

        The pancreas transplant should help.  He has virtual no pancreatic function.  His pancreas is only serving as a host to infection and inflammation.  Even with a new pancreas, he will probably still be an insulin resistant diabetic, but its considered worth a shot because of how organs are distributed...if he is on the list for a pancreas and a kidney, it moves him up and he should actually get a kidney sooner.

    • Wow (0 / 0)

      never heard of that graft, very interesting. Will he go on TPN or have an NG or g-tube? Sounds like if they can bypass thee esophagus he won't need the I.V. line...

      I'll keep sending good, healing, weight gaining thoughts his way.

      • He's going to have the (0 / 0)

        g-tube.  He gains weight fairly quickly with this.  They will leave it in until he has the surgery and has recovered enough to eat.

        I had never heard of this surgery either.  So, ofcourse, first thing I did was look it up.  It's not that uncommon and the results are usually pretty good.  People who have had the esophagus removed due to cancer don't fare as well because they've usually had a lot of radiation in the area prior to the surgery.  However, since that won't be the case, we're hoping that it does, indeed, improve his ability to eat.  Supposedly people gain near normal eating ability.

    • that is a lot to process (0 / 0)

      but I am glad that the clinic was able to come up with positive steps forward. Good luck to him putting on weight ASAP.

    • wow (0 / 0)

      I am amazed reading about all this. I had never heard of this procedure, either. I will keep thinking good thoughts for them.

    • i am glad the prognosis is so good, (0 / 0)

      but had no idea problems like this were tied to diabetes.  i hope he continues to be a good candidate and does well with the procedures.  

    • Oh tjb (0 / 0)

      I'm so sorry to hear they got bad news! I had missed that so far. It's good that upon reflection and research you found that there is also good news. Must be so hard to see one of your children (including their partners) facing such hard times.
      I'm thinking about you all,

  • Carbon offsets (0 / 0)

    I drive a mini van but buy a TerraPass to offset the carbon emissions and to assuage my guilt.

    Elisa wrote,

    the owner would simply pass on the burden to another consumer unless s/he scraps it.

    Good point - I had not thought about that aspect. Duh. I wonder if there is a way to hybridize an older car? Someone needs to figure that out.

    JLo has jumped the shark, IMO

    Star Jones - please.

    Sam has a cold - hoping to stay out of the hospital this weekend.

  • First cast (0 / 0)

    I thought I had a few years before this, but at 21 months, DS is in his first cast.  He catapulted himself out of his pack & play (I had no idea he could get his leg over the side) and fractured a bone near his wrist.  So the poor thing is in a dark purple cast up to his shoulder.  It's not stopping him much though.

    I'm also shopping around for plumbers and I HATE IT!  I hate the ones who charge $50-$80 just to show up and tell you what else they'll be charging you for.  It seems to be a pretty simple clogged toilet, and I understand they need to make a living, but right now, a $25 difference in estimates makes a big difference.  That's a half a tank of gas or half a week of groceries.  I just feel like I'm hostage to these guys and it's driving me crazy.  I asked my neighbors for recommendations, but no one's needed a plumber, so I'm on my own.  I've gotten so screwed by mechanics that I'm just anxious about anything like this.  Wish me luck!

    • I routinely tell people when they (0 / 0)

      ask about Liza's future ambitions that I woudl like nothing more than for her to be a plumber. When they give me the usual astonished look I say "hey when you call a plumber you don't say 'how soon and how much' you just say 'how soon'"  

    • My son had his first cast (0 / 0)

      at about that age.  He thought he could fly, apparently...or, maybe he just expected that some adult would always be around when it was proven, over and over that he couldn't fly.  He was standing on a stepping stool at my mothers and jumped out at me as I walked by.  I caught him, but not before he half landed  feet first on the floor.  Broke his foot.

      This didn't stop him, either.  He was right back out there walking on that cast.  I don't think it occurs to them that a broken bone is supposed to hurt.

      • I don't think it hurts so much (0 / 0)

        I don't think it occurs to them that a broken bone is supposed to hurt.

        DS broke his last year (at age 33 months) and DD broke her wrist in November..after the initial trauma that caused the break they seemed to have NO pain. In fact, just last night DD said she wants to break her arm AGAIN because she misses her pretty, pink sparkly cast. Oy.

        • I got up on Thanksgiving morning (0 / 0)

          a couple of years ago and passed out on my way to the bathroom.  Hit my elbow on the corner wall and broke it.  That sounds as if it should really hurt, but you know, unless I tried to  move it in specific ways, it really didn't.  

          And it is funny...kids all go through that stage where they want broken arms, glasses and braces on their teeth.  They have strange tastes in accessories.

    • If it's just a simple clogged toilet (0 / 0)

      you might be able to clear it yourself with a plumbing snake. Maybe someone around you has one you can borrow. I don't know how much they cost (maybe you can rent one?) but I would expect less than $50.

      If it's tree roots getting into the sewage system, that you'll need a pro for.

      • Daily Kos Home Repair Diary (0 / 0)

        Saturday mornings, there is a home repair diary posted on Daily Kos; go to http://www.dailykos.com/... and you'll find it. There are several construction professionals who post there and will help you with questions.

      • We tried a snake (0 / 0)

        Couldn't get anything.  Roots are my big fear; we have a ton of trees in our yard.  I know most people think this is kid of weird, but I don't like a lot of trees.  I grew up on the prairie, being able to see all around me, so I'm actually a bit suspicious of too many trees.  My best friend, who drew up in the northern woods, asked me if I feel exposed.  I said on the contrary; I like seeing all around so I know if someone's sneaking up on me!

    • Poor Gus! (0 / 0)

      Hope his arm heels fast.

  • Just went to the doctor..neighborhood cat bit me! (0 / 0)

    I was walking home after taking my daughter to school and the neighborhood "friendly" cat approached me on the sidewalk - like he does.  I reached down to give him a gentle pat - he's a geriatric fellow - and after a few seconds, he reared up onto his hind legs, grabbed my forearm with his front legs/claws, and BIT me!  I was in such shock, as I have never seen this cat act this way.  I was actually bleeding!

    I washed the area and then walked over to the house where the cat lives - I had never met the people.  The lady who answered the door was babysitting their toddler but she said that she's afraid of the cat, so she never lets him inside the house when she is there.  She said she believed the cat was up on all of its vaccinations.

    My doctor was not worried about rabies but did prescribe strong antibiotics because that's standard for puncture wounds and cats can carry staph in their mouths.  I'll be taking 8 capsules a day for the next 10 days!

    I'm still in disbelief that I was bitten by a CAT this morning - so out of the ordinary.  The doctor visit plus drugs cost $25.  I wonder if they'll offer to pay?

    My bigger concern is the fact that this friendly cat has a reputation as being lovable and sweet so kids willingly approach him.  I am so afraid a child is going to be attacked - and probably in the face!  <shudder>

    • Years ago we had a friend (0 / 0)

      who loved to tell everyone his cat-bite story.  One morning he went out on his porch.  There was a cat sitting on the railing.  He reached over to pet it and it grabbed onto his arm and would not let go.  According to his memory, he was shaking his arm trying to get it off and someone else had to come outside and help him detach this cat from him.  He needed over 20 stitches in his arm.

      • Stitches! How awful! (0 / 0)

        Someone recently told me a story of woman in PA who walked out to her car in the morning and a raccoon popped out from under the car and bit her on the leg!  She had to have the full-on rabies treatment.

        I got off lucky, I did not need stitches or rabies shots.  

        I'm not petting any more cats, it's just not worth the risk.  I'll just pet my dog.

        • That is really strange cat behaviour. (0 / 0)

          I'm glad you went to the doctor - he's totally right that puncture wounds like that can become infected easily and a cat's mouth is bacteria land.    

          I love cats but it would be a dark day around here if my cat ever bit someone like that.  

          "As God is my witness, I thought turkeys could fly"

          by lonestar canuck on Fri Apr 25, 2008 at 01:38:13 PM PDT

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        • I found a dead bat in my washing machine (0 / 0)

          About a month ago, I pulled something brown and wet (looked like lint or a sock) out of the washer and once I got it out, I noticed it had legs and ears and OHMYGODIT'SABAT!  Needless to say there was screaming and much freaking out.

          I was concerned about germs but I guess the washing machine got him all cleaned up, because I didn't have any problems.  Well, other than being very, very careful about sticking my hand in my machine these days.

          It really screws with you when those everyday things you do turn out not as you expected.  Hope the cat injuries get well soon.  

          • giggle.... (0 / 0)

            I'm having a giggle fit imagining the girly squeals... How in the world did a bat get in your washing machine?!!!

            • I have no idea (0 / 0)

              The best theory is that it had gotten somehow wrapped up in the comforter I had just washed (talk about ew, ew, ew...my husband had used the comforter just before that, so it may have been in bed with him).  I thought maybe through a hose or something, but again, I'm not quite sure how.

              The scream was really funny.  Our laundry room is at the opposite corner of the basement from the stairs so DH said it kind of traveled from one end of the house to the other.  And he knew it wasn't a scared scream, but more like "I am so freaking grossed out right now".

          • you're brave, Jen! (0 / 0)

            If I'dve pulled a bat corpse out of my washing machine, screams would be the least of the problem! Laughing and shivering at the same time here.

        • I can top that (0 / 0)

          One of my voice teachers in grad school was attacked by a squirrel defending her nest.  She needed stitches and full-on rabies treatment.  All she did was step out onto her back deck but apparently the squirrel had built the nest on a tree that was right alongside the deck.  This teacher was in her ate 60s/early 70s at the time so she didn't recover very quickly.

          The teacher was very cool about it.  She didn't hold a grudge against the squirrel or have the nest removed.  I think she respected that it was a mother acting out of her protective instinct.

    • I would ask for proof of vaccinations (0 / 0)

      Don't take her word for it.  Ask for the vet's name to call and verify.  Around our neighborhood raccoons and bats can have rabies and outside cats are vulnerable if not up on their shots.

    • earlier this year (0 / 0)

      my niece got cat scratch fever.  I'm glad you got antibiotics right away.  It was a fairly serious illness by the time they figured it out.

  • Gardasil Commercial (HPV Cervical Cancer) (0 / 0)

    I just saw a Gardasil commercial.  That's the first one I've seen.  It was on Fuse.

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