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Dispelling the Cheerleader Myth

Wed Apr 02, 2008 at 01:54:42 PM PDT

I admit, I avoided the cheerleaders at my high school. Actually, I was friends with one Spanish exchange student who joined the squad as she saw cheerleading as this all-American sport and a way to assimilate. But I teased her, calling cheerleading “cheesy.”

The image of the pretty airhead with pom-poms never did escape me -- until now. This article in Salon gave me pause.

Salon writer Lynn Harris interviewed Kate Torgovnick, author of the recently released Cheer! Three Teams On a Quest For College Cheerleading’s Ultimate Prize.  What Torgovnick found in her book was not the stereotypical pretty girl hanging onto male athletes, but one of the toughest athletes at school. And most of the women she encountered were not these dainty butterflies, but tough competitors who played football or joined ROTC. Ditto with male cheerleaders who were unheard of at my high school in the early '90s.

Here is a snippet of Harris's interview with Torgovnick:

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Why are we so obsessed with cheerleaders? Seriously, is it just because they're hot?

We're definitely a culture obsessed with youth and beauty -- so it makes sense that we're taken by cheerleaders. I do think there's more to it than that, though. For Americans, cheerleaders are one of the most recognizable high school stock characters, the ones who are synonymous with popularity. It's interesting to look at some of the cheerleaders you see in movies, on television, and in ads. They fall pretty distinctly into two camps -- the chaste, good girls who are worshipped from afar and then the slutty, snobby queen bees. As icons, cheerleaders really toe that virgin/whore dichotomy. They're a recognizable female symbol, so I think we as a culture project some very contradictory views about women onto them.

Tell us about male cheerleaders. What don't the cheerleader-clueless among us know? The outside perspective is that they're, you know, grinning chorus boys (or George W. Bush). But at schools where cheerleading is integral and respected, do the men get homophobic bullshit, or are they considered true athletes? (Perhaps even more so than the girls?)

First of all, most people don't know that in college cheerleading, 50 percent of cheerleaders are guys. The stereotype out there is that guy cheerleaders are either gay or very effeminate. But that's just not what I encountered for the most part. Here's what I did see about male cheerleaders. First of all, they are enormous -- the aesthetic is to have guys who weigh two to three times as much as their female stunt partners. These guys typically come from other sports -- football, wrestling, basketball, weight lifting -- and had some type of injury that took them out of their first sport or they didn't get the athletic scholarship they were hoping for. A huge percentage of the guys give the same explanation for how they first got interested in cheerleading: for a girl. Once they've gone to a few practices, they kind of get hooked. Overall, while there are definitely all kinds of guys who become cheerleaders, it's a surprisingly manly-man, beer-guzzling culture.

And yes, even at schools where cheerleading is huge, the guys definitely have to deal with the stereotype. One of the guys at Stephen F. Austin University told me that they often invite football players to parties or practices, so they can see firsthand what cheerleading is all about. And James, a captain at Southern University, says that every time he meets a girl and tells her that he's a cheerleader they always say, "Can I ask you a question?" He automatically knows what they are going to say…

What's it going to take for cheerleading to really, finally be considered a true sport?

A lot of people make the argument that cheerleading isn't a sport because there's no ball and no way to objectively score it. But, and I'm going straight to the dictionary here, a sport is "an athletic activity requiring skill or physical prowess and often of a competitive nature." So I just don't get how cheerleading wouldn't count.

I think what it will take is more people becoming aware of the intense athleticism it takes to be a competitive cheerleader. And that's definitely starting to happen. A big issue here is that cheerleading has a split personality; while there is this intense, die-hard athletic side, there is still the cheering at games, the makeup, the big hair. I think at some point we may see a split off of these two types of cheerleading; the University of Maryland and the University of Oregon have already created separate teams -- one that focuses exclusively on competition and is a varsity sport, and a second spirit squad that cheers at games. There is also a small movement to get cheerleading into the Olympics. Hey, Ping-Pong is in, why not cheerleading?

Were any of you cheerleaders? How about your children? What stereotypes have you encountered?

Tags: cheerleader, Salon, Cheer!, Kate Torgovnick, book review, stereotypes (all tags)

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  • OK, I'll say it (0 / 0)

    I was a cheerleader, but only one year, in 7th grade. And I was NOT an athlete. :) I couldn't even do a cartwheel! I don't know why I was picked for the team, other than I was really enthusiastic. We had a lot of fun, we really did!

    I totally admire the athlete-cheerleaders nowadays.

  • Safety issues (0 / 0)

    I wouldn't have been seen with cheerleaders to save my life, but many of my adult best friends were on the squad, so they must turn out alright! ;)

    I really do think we need to start looking at cheerleading as a serious sport. I've heard that because cheerleading is not classified as a sport, it goes fairly unregulated. The lack of safety regulations is probably why cheerleading has such a high rate of catastrophic and fatal injuries.

    According to the NYT, cheerleading accounts for more than half of all catastrophic or fatal injuries seen in female student athletes.

    So let's call it a sport, already, and save these kids from some horrible injuries.

  • In my case, glad to be wrong about them (0 / 0)

    I had the same aversion to cheerleading and cheerleaders in general in high school until I was assigned to do an Econ project with one of the most popular cheerleaders in my grade.  At first, I was horrified and tried to convince the teacher to change my partner, but he wouldn't.  We ended up working really well together, got an 'A' on the project and are still friends to this day.  Just goes to show, you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, or whatever other expression works in this situation :)

  • As a kid I wouldn't have been hanging around (0 / 0)

    cheerleaders.  As a parent I think it is really dangerous. I've seen them on asphault tossing girls in the air, very wobbly pyramids, etc. Seems like they need helmets or something. I'm talking about jr high and high school.  I don't know anything about college cheerleaders.  

  • cheering (0 / 0)

    There's cheerleading, that is definitely a sport and not to be messed with (and should be regulated, I agree sangfroid) and then there's "cheering". My High School had 2 squads- the girls that could do their sport well and the cheer girls who wore skimpy clothing, sometimes writhed along to music and generally acted stereotypically.

    I think the stereotype comes from the 50s & 60s- there were so many images of cheerleaders from that time, I can't help but doubt that the sport was as athletic as today. So undeserved for 2008? Probably.

  • my sister-in-law (0 / 0)

    My husband has a much-younger sister who was a cheerleader at Northwestern(whatever year that was that they went to the Rose Bowl - we saw her in the parade!) She was very athletic, had a lot of dance and gymnastics as a kid. Now as a married mom, she is still very health-conscious and a runner. She was also smart. When I was growing up, it was much more about popularity, but the rigorous work done now, the gymnastics and all, makes it a sport.

  • My mom! (0 / 0)

    My mom was a cheerleader in a small Catholic school in the late 60s.  They were pretty well-covered as it was a Catholic school-sweater type uniforms.  The funny thing is that the style of cheering back then was to have the girls shout with these deep low voices.  She still does it every now and then when she's had a few.  It cracks my husband up.  They tried to sound like the older brother on Everyone Loves Raymond.  Weird stuff.

  • In high school (0 / 0)

    I was indifferent to cheerleaders.  The first school I attended was large enough that if you weren't a cheerleader, you had plenty of company.  Plus, the freshmen girls who wanted to be cheerleaders were required to make such complete fools of themselves via the hazing ritual that it was difficult to be envious.  Hazing...now there would be an interesting topic...

    Now, having read about how dangerous cheerleading is, it bothers me that it isn't recognized as its own burley sport.  I know that supporting the team is the point, but did anyone see that episode of King of the Hill where the cheerleading coach was more focused on cheerleading than showcasing the football team?  Well, I was on her side.

  • I know an amazing girl. (0 / 0)

    She has been involved with a "Cheer" squad outside her highschool for many years - I think she's 15 - anyway, she is very smart, she has a positive attitude and is exceptionally healthy and VERY STRONG and REALLY athletic. I recently went with my friend to check out her little pixie (she's 5'1") in action and was in complete aw. The tumbling passes were ridiculous and I can't believe how high they were throwing her up into the air and actually cathing her... I was really amazed.

    The interesting thing about this girl is that she has no interest in joining the ra-ra cheerleading squad from her highschool; she says that they aren't really athletes and she hates that they don't compete. Her mom tells me that the practices are grueling and that they are required to maintain their GPA. It's also very expensive; I think my friend has spent close to $6,000 this season alone.

    I'm not big on the whole cheerleading thing, but after being exposed to my friends daughter I'm giving it a 2nd thought for my own little mama who is only 2.

  • different at my high school (0 / 0)

    Cheerleading was a total joke at my high school.  I can't figure out how to get away from high-school-thinking to say this in a different way, but it was basically all the super-unpopular girls who thought that if they signed up for cheerleading, then they'd suddenly be cool.  I certainly wasn't popular in high school, but also wasn't the type who was desperate to be popular, so I had no interest (and no talent, either!).

    They did end up forming a nice little tight-knit group and worked pretty hard, despite not being terribly coordinated, so in retrospect I'd say it was a good thing for those involved.  They were sort of a laughingstock at the time, though, especially among the jocks.  

    Speaking of laughingstocks, wasn't George Bush a cheerleader?

  • where did you grow up? (0 / 0)

    I think it's likely the cheerleading thing is regional.  Like it's huge in Texas and southern states, and maybe not as huge a deal elsewhere.  I grew up in suburban New York, and, like at your school, the popular girls played other sports.

    I'm curious if others from different areas can give a sense of cheerleading in different regions.

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