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It is not easy feeling queasy

Thu Sep 20, 2007 at 11:05:17 AM PDT

Hi everyone. I've been lurking a lot lately because I haven't had the time to be online, but I have seen much discussion lately about pregnancy and babies. So I thought I'd give a little update. I recently found out that I'm pregnant with #2 (I’m about 9 weeks along) and unlike my first pregnancy I have had the WORST case of nausea. So this morning sickness experience is new to me, and it totally sucks! I've been following Minnmom and Tessajp's stories (I feel your pain ladies), but I don't feel like I need medication to ease it yet... So far, I've been following my Dr's advice of eating often and avoiding an empty stomach. My diet looks kind of pitiful: crackers, ginger ale, string cheese, peanut butter granola bars, and pretzels are what gets me through the day.

Another new development this time around is the presence of food aversions. With DS, EVERYTHING tasted good! I ate like crazy and was lucky enough to only gain 35 lbs. This time, nothing tastes good and foods I love turn my stomach. No more coffee. Just the smell of it brewing makes me want to retch. No more scrambled eggs. I made them for DS last week and just the sight of it was enough to get my tummy turning. And I love eggs! Sigh. Ditto for pot roast, chicken, onions, garlic, and orange juice. For someone that enjoys cooking, this totally stinks (no pun intended!). Also things like scented lotions, perfumes, and even my shampoo! have made my tummy tell my brain to "open a window please".

I've been feeling a little guilty because my enthusiasm for taking DS to the park, play dates, etc. is waning these days. The nausea makes me just want to lay down and rest. To make it up to him we've been playing a lot outside in the yard. That seems to satisfy his need to run and play. I also have caved and let him watch WAY more TV than I normally would. The other day he was so sweet. When he saw me on the couch he brought me his favorite Teddy Bear named Boo. Guess he must have thought that I needed his Boo to feel better.
I know I should quit complaining. DH and I are so lucky to be, um...very fertile. Conception was no struggle for us, in fact we were hoping for a summer baby because my MIL and Mom are both teachers so we planned on their help. But, oops. Things happened a little faster than expected.

There is one upside to this pregnancy. I don't seem to be as tired as I was last time. But my life is very different now. I am at home with DS, so I force myself to nap when he naps (which is what I should be doing now). With DS I was working full time and had a terrible commute. It makes the world of difference. I also wonder if my on the go, chasing toddler mode is partly to blame for the nausea. I am way more physically active and probably need to eat more. But then again maybe it’s just the hormones.

Tags: morning sickness, pregancy, food aversions (all tags)

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  • Congratulations Jen!! (0 / 0)

    I was wondering what you were up to. :-)

    I had really bad morning sickness, too, with both my kids. As long as you can hold down your prenatal vitamin, you should be fine. Many times my meals were meager: saltine crackers, Sprite or seltzer water with lime juice and limes. In fact, I always had a lime at my bedside to sniff and take a taste. (Old Latin American remedy.) Rest as much as you can.

    At nine weeks, you are almost this hump!

    • Thanks (0 / 0)

      I'll have to try adding some limes to the mix. At this point, whatever works! I haven't been sick yet, but I've come close a few times. Yesterday I actually felt really good. So maybe my body is adjusting to the hormones. But today I had a few waves, so who knows...

  • Yay! (0 / 0)

    Congratulations!!!!!!!

    I am starting to get baby fever around here myself!  With all these pregnancies and adoptions and all sorts of wonderful happenings!

    First time, pg with a boy, working too, wasn't nauseous past the first trimester, and not even that bad.

    Second time, pg with a girl, NAUSEOUS THE ENTIRE PREGNANCY.  Oh my god.  Didn't vomit much.

    Anyway, I sympathize, but sending you lots of happy wishes and hoping it passes for you soon.

  • Wow! There's a lot of us preggos out here! (0 / 0)

    I'm glad I'm in good company! I'm 10 weeks along today, so let's hear it for April babies. I too wanted a summer baby (June would have been ideal) but it was too easy, I guess :)

    I thought being pregnant with DS was bad. I had nausea and food aversions, extreme fatigue, the whole nine yards. Well, that was nothing like this! Before meds, I couldn't even keep down saltines. Now I am able to eat real food but I still throw up at least once a day. DS is matter of fact about it: "Mommy threw up in the sink while we were playing robots. Don't throw up on my robots, Mommy, they're my favorite toys!"  And: "Don't throw up on your stuff because then it would be all gooey!"  Sound advice, indeed.

    I keep a baggie full of Kix cereal with me at all times. I tell myself it's helping. At the very least, it's extra vitamins!

    DS is also getting more than his share of TV lately but I don't think he'll suffer any permanent trauma. Or so I try to reassure myself!

    • April Babies indeed! (0 / 0)

      That is really sweet that you DS doesn't want you to be sick. My little one is only 20 months, so he doesn't understand why I want to lay on the couch like a lump.

      Another great snacky type food that has helped settle my tummy has been plain goldfish crackers.

      I was actually able to drink orange juice yesterday and it didn't make me feel terrible. So maybe that is a good sign.

      • I'm not sure he's concerned about me (0 / 0)

        or his stuff!  He does understand I'm sick and keeps asking when I'll feel better. Fortunately, he's unfazed by my needing to suddenly exit a room and retch. That's the nice thing about having them 5 years apart. They are a bit more capable of reason at this age.

        Don't even talk to me about orange juice! I had some at lunch yesterday and threw it up some 5 hours later. Oh, that was not good. I may never drink orange juice again.

        I'm glad you are coping! Staying at home with a 20-month old while fighting first-trimester ills sounds like a battle! Too bad they don't give medals :)

  • CONGRATULATIONS!! (0 / 0)

    Hope to be joining you soon. Glad to hear you had an easy time getting pregnant, even if it happened sooner than expected.

    It's making me nervous to hear about your nausea and food aversions the second time around! I had a picture-perfect pregnancy the first time (had a girl), and just took it for granted that the next one will be lovely as well. I'd better prepare myself for the possibility of morning sickness!

    Hang in there!

    • Ditto (0 / 0)

      Congratulations, ladies! Just wanted to ease your mind a little, Erika -- my pregnancy with #1 was great, and so was #2. I had GD with #2 but it was easily controlled by diet (I actually LOST a couple of pounds in the 3rd trimester), and I felt just as good as I did with #1.

  • Congrats! (0 / 0)

    Good news! Sorry you are feeling green. I had five months of morning, afternoon & evening sickness with my twins and then by the time that stopped, I was so big I could hardly eat anything before I felt full.

    One thing that I could keep down -- chocolate milk. I drank a quart of it every morning once I figured that out -- I am not kidding. Often it was the only thing that stayed down all day.

    I hope your nausea ends soon!

    • Ah....it was popsickles and oranges with my twins (0 / 0)

      And the nausea from the heartburn was the worst for the last few months...I remember when I was on the delivery table having them all I could thinking about was getting finished so I could have something to get rid of the heartburn.  The heartburn was truly worse than the labor and delivery.

  • Congratulations! (0 / 0)

    I always had morning sickness.  It was worse with some than with others.  It sucks...but one thing I still find helpful is to keep hard peppermint candies close...you know, for those times that not letting yourself get empty, etc., just aren't doing the trick.

    Food aversions are funny.  With one of my daughters, I could not stand the sight or smell of pizza.  I couldn't even be in the same house where it had been eaten hours before.  I still don't like pizza 21 years later.  With one of my sons I didn't like meat.  I could manage a little ground beef in a casserole, but couldn't manage to eat more than that.  In fact, it made me ill to prepare it for the rest of my family.  Go figure.  With the rest of my kids I craved it to the point of wanting to eat it raw.

  • Congratulations! (0 / 0)

    Though I am sorry about the sickness!

    I'm 32 weeks with #2, and I was horribly sick both times.  With this first I was the most sick weeks 8-14, and with this one I was sick weeks 6-15, with horrible heartburn for a while after that, though it's gone now.  My first daughter is now 8 and boy did she get a lot of TV and computer time those first few months!  She was also great about helping take care of me, which was especially nice since DH is at work most evenings.  She'd bring me water or crackers, stuff like that.  

    Things I actually could eat: yogurt, bananas, plain spaghetti, white rice, potatoes without skins....   Oh, and I could also eat a few things at Taco Bell: Beef meximelts without the tomatoes, and bean burritos.  I avoided tomatoes at all costs...nasty!  Trust your nose!  (Though my nose was a better guide in my first pregnancy...with this one it betrayed me from time to time, lol.)

    Things that are supposed to help: lemon or lime (either just smelling it or actually eating it...try lemon in your water), and ginger.  There are these ginger candies that you can get at Asian food stores.  My friend swears they helped her, though she could only eat 1/2 of one at a time.  I tried it, but couldn't eat it.  It's kind of gooey and very strong flavored.  

    I did take Zofran with this baby.  It didn't stop the nausea (though it lessened it), but it would definitely keep me from throwing up.

    Good luck!

    Nola

  • This could be my first pregnancy (0 / 0)

    First time out, I was horribly ill and had HORRIBLE food aversions.  I couldn't eat any meat but corned beef.  The only thing I could eat for breakfast was Entenmann's fudge iced chocolate cake.   My husband HATED making dinner because he would call me every day and say "What do you want for dinner?" and I would groan and say "Stop asking me that!!!"

    This time around, I have the horrible illness but the aversions haven't shown up.  I can't eat a lot in one sitting.  I feel nauseous all day long.  "Morning" sickness my ass.  
    Something that helped me a lot the first time around that I can't seem to find this time were Ginger Altoids.  They were like a miracle pill.  Preggy Pops help a little bit.  Of course, crackers are a staple.  

    The upside of this extreme illness:  I came out of pregnancy ten pounds lighter than I went in, having only gained 20 pounds total.  Since I have a totally healthy daughter (and yes, you seem to be having a girl!), I can not feel guilty in pointing this out.  :)

    Congratulations on your pregnancy!  Late spring babies are the best because you don't get trapped in your house by either the heat or the cold.  Yay!

  • Isn't it funny how different (0 / 0)

    pregnancies and babies can be even with the same mother????

    Your experience actually sounds a lot like mine.  No morning sickness with #1, a lot with #2.  Even the smell of coffee, Chinese food, etc. was too much for me.  Even the smell of a person smoking two or three cars in front of me at a traffic light would make me nauseous....I'd have to roll my window up.  

    Congratulations!!!  I hope your morning sickness wanes by the second trimester if not sooner.  

  • congratulations! (0 / 0)

    hope you feel better :>)

  • counterintuitive-- salsa (0 / 0)

    mexican ladies used to tell me this one and by golly, it worked. I could add to my diet of bananas, ginger candy, and crackers by eating chips and salsa. So weird.

    if you wobba cypress trees then I will wobba you

    by thais on Fri Sep 21, 2007 at 07:35:32 AM PDT

  • 15 weeks here (0 / 0)

    and terrible nausea is just now easing. Eating a cracker before getting out of bed helped (advice from grandmother).

    Applesauce was one thing I found I could smell and eat without wanting to throw up.

    Tessajp, I saw Ginger Altoids at the supermarket yesterday so they still make them--maybe you can order them online.

  • Anti Morning Sickness Tea (0 / 0)

    It is organic and natural.  One of the main active ingredients is Ginger

    The tea is made by Earth Mama Angel Baby, and is available several places, including here.

     Morning Wellness Tea

    • Ginger Tea (0 / 0)

      Totally helps. I have found a few brands that I like and I can also stomach peppermint tea. Luckily, I've been feeling great over the last few days (except for this stupid cold...), so I may be over the hump. Yah!

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