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Dinner on a school night

Tue Sep 11, 2007 at 12:06:32 PM PDT

Okay, here it is, 2:00 in the afternoon and suddenly, as if this has never happened before, I am wondering what to fix for dinner. You would think with two 10 year olds in the house, I would have figured this out a long time ago. Surely it's not that hard? Dinner comes around every day, so it certainly shouldn't be a surprise to me that it's here again, and that as the SAHM I am the one responsible for preparing something.

And, yet, here I am again.

In fairness to myself, let me say that I thought we'd all be coming in at different times from various lessons, meetings, etc. today, so grabbing something on the go was part of my plan. Well, that went out the window when I went to lunch with a friend and my car failed to start. Now I have no vehicle to transport kids to and from various activities, and therefore, no way to pick up something quick while I'm out. Looks like we'll all be staying in tonight [except DH; he has a late meeting and will arrive well past dinner time]. But I didn't make it to the grocery store! What to fix?

I mentioned last week about being in a food rut. Pasta with pesto, build your own tacos, homemade pizza, honey-mustard chicken with roasted potatoes. I need some new ideas --- new recipes, new menu ideas, anything you want to share.

Can you help me out, fellow MTers? What shall I prepare for dinner tonight?

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  • I should say (0 / 0)

    I do have some chicken in the freezer [of course, it couldn't be thawed with my luck today] so I am sure we'll have that and some frozen vegetables or salad. But I'd still love new ideas!

    • I, too, would love to hear (0 / 0)

      what others are serving their families.  Unfortunately I don't have anything good to offer myself, but even if the menus seem boring to you, please post them for the rest of us!

    • Campbells is your BEST FRIEND EVER. (0 / 0)

      I could not live without it some nights. DH usually cooks, but when it's my turn, I look at what I've got and go to Campbells Kitchen. Type in "chicken and cheese" for example, and you've got a ton of recipes.

      For this reason, we always have a bunch of generic soups around too. You can look up by soup type if you're limited, plus chicken.

    • wok (0 / 0)

      i love my wok.  

      i throw veggies ( broccoli, red cabbage, onions...whatever your kids will eat) sliced chicken breast( or tofu/meat) into hot wok with olive oil.  add garlic,sesame seeds and lawry's seasoning salt.  wok it all up and at the end add a bit of terriyaki sauce.  serve over rice.  done, quick and healthy.

      other items i like to throw in as well:

      ginger
      water chestnuts
      edamame
      ground flax seed (omega 3's)

      rice:  I get organic brown rice from Trader Joe's..pop in microwave for 3 minutes...done.

      i also make up a big batch so my dd can take as left overs next day.

    • Chicken can be different every night (0 / 0)

      with different spice treatments.

      • Drizzle it in hot sauce, BBQ sauce, or dressing. Bake in the oven (is it flash frozen pieces or one big chicken) or put in foil packets and cook them on the grill.
      • stew it. Since you're home, and it's frozen, if it's a big mass o chicken, "Chicken with 40 cloves" is a great chickeny stew type thing. Course, you probably don't have a pile of garlic around.
      • Have spice rubs on hand.  Penzey's can't help you today, but they make lots of yummy blends, have very flavorful spices, and are probably cheaper than your supermarket.
      • ginger stir fry

      I usually do this with beef and string beans, but cook up your meat with some garlic and ginger (both powdered and candied if you have both) and get it nicely browned. Remove the meat and add in your veggies and maybe some nuts, like cashews or peanuts or pine nuts, if you have them. You can also add chopped fruit, like apples, or dried fruit. If you want a bit of a sauce, add some liquid, maybe a cup (broth of some sort) and then add a teaspoon of cornstarch mixed with a little water.

      Serve with rice.

      One of my favorite cookbooks is Mark Bittman's How To Cook Everything. It's a grandiose title, but it actually pretty much live up to it.

      Do you have lentils in the pantry?

  • pork tenderloin (0 / 0)

    One of my favorite easy dinners is a pork tenderloin.

    Rub it with olive oil, coarse salt and sage.  Let it sit a little while.  In the meantime, quarter new potatoes and toss those with olive oil and salt and spread them on a cookie sheet and roast them at around 375 for about 25 minutes. While you are roasting the potatoes, warm a cast iron skillet on the top rack of the oven.

    Switch the oven from 375 to broil.  Put the tenderloin in the cast iron skillet, keep the potatoes on the cookie sheet to stay warm.  Broil the tenderloin for about 10 minutes, flip it, broil it about ten minutes more (I usually flip mine a couple of times to get even browning).  Then remove it from the oven and let it rest about 10 minutes before slicing it into medallions.

    With two ten year olds and two grown ups, you probably need two tenderloins.

  • Here are my "standards" (0 / 0)

    LOL - my family is tired of them, so I'm open to new ones too.

    QUICHE - this is a family favorite - and the easiest way to get my DS8 to eat veggies. I use low-fat milk and part-skim cheese to keep my DD16 happy.

    Stir fry - I like fresh veggies, but will use the frozen, pre-chopped ones.  I do have with chicken and half with tofu or veggie-chicken to keep both meat-eaters and vegetarians happy

    Spaghetti and __ - the fall back is any kind of pasta, bottle of sauce, and then whatever protein I can find or defrost

    Make your own pizza - store bought pizza dough, rolled out, bottled sauce, pre-grated cheese, and either mushrooms or pepperoni

    Vegetable stew - tonight we're having a stew with eggplant, zucchini, onions, mushrooms, and tomatoes. YUM!  I'll defrost meatballs or hamburger to make the meat-eaters happy.

    • Ah, yes...spahgetti and all its (0 / 0)

      variations.  We do a "baked spaghetti" type dish that seems to be different enough from the regular that I can get by with doing one or the other at least once a week.

      I LOVE quiche.  I don't make my own, but I often buy one for myself.  Works out well since most of my kids won't eat it...you gotta love having food around that you know you don't have to share!

      • How do you do baked spaghetti? (0 / 0)

        • Boil spaghetti, set it aside. (0 / 0)

          Fry a pound of ground beef with mushrooms, onions and peppers.  Mix the meat into a mixture of spaghetti sauce, tomato soup, tomato paste and your favorite spices/seasonings.  

          In a baking pan, layer the spaghetti and sauce mix.  Bake at 350 degrees for about 45 minutes.  Add a layer of mozzarella cheese and put it back in the oven until the cheese is melted.

    • Fritatta (0 / 0)

      is a quiche without crust, and is very fast and easy. Great vehicle for frozen spinach.

  • Roast Chicken (0 / 0)

    is one of our favorite non-summer meals.  It's sooooo easy too!  Basically, you put a whole lemon and 2 garlic cloves in the cavity, and then season the outside with either butter or olive oil (my personal favorite).  You can season the outside with salt and pepper, tarragon, rosemary, or use your imagination!  Put it in the oven at 400 degrees and cook it 20 minutes per pound.  Baste it every 15 minutes or so during the last hour.  

    You can even make gravy from the drippings if you have a fancy Sunday dinner w/mashed potatoes.  We eat the leftover chicken as cooked chicken is so versatile (think salads, sandwiches, etc.) and also save some chicken to make homemade chicken noodle soup.  To make soup, strip the carcass of most of the meat, boil it in a medium stockpot w/an onion cut in half (with the skin... that gives the broth its rich color), a couple of stalks of celery and a couple of stalks of carrots.  Add some salt to it, but not too much.  Simmer this for about 2 hours, then let it cool.  Put it in the fridge overnight, strain it through cheesecloth or a fine strainer and you've got the base for soup!  Just add the chopped meat back in w/carrots, peas, corn, lima beans... again, use your imagination.  You add the noodles in at the last minute... my favorite kind are those Kluski egg noodles.  Salt and pepper to taste.  Voila... healthy dinners for several nights!

  • Papa John's (0 / 0)

    Or I'd take a cab to Chuy's if I were in Austin.  

    I childproofed my house but they got back in somehow.

    by lonestar canuck on Tue Sep 11, 2007 at 12:42:07 PM PDT

  • Here's a wierd one, (0 / 0)

    but tasty. It's called Okonomiyaki and it's basically a vegetable and meat pancake, that you dunk in soysauce if you like. I've used this recipe from the Tassajara Bread Book, and it's pretty easy, just a lot of slicing.

    I haven't made it in a while, but it needs evaporated milk, the only sort of odd ingredient. That, and pork or fish on hand. Babies love these because you make pancakes small enough to pick up, like the size of a McNugget.

    I think I'm going with roast chicken tonight, so I can make a vat of soup tomorrow.

  • I always have a box of rice around (0 / 0)

    as well as chicken and hamburger meat in the freezer.  It can always be thrown together for a quick meal along with a salad.  

    Also, how about grilled bacon and cheese, or grilled ham and cheese?  That's always a fallback in my house, too.  Or, baked potatoes with whatever you have around to top them with?  Again, maybe some bacon, cheese, sourcream, etc?  

    I go through food ruts, too.  Its been a little easier this summer because we've kept things that can be done quickly on the grill.  To make life easier, I also keep store bought cole slaw, potato salad, macaroni salad, etc., around to have with whatever we grill.

  • My favorite easy soup (0 / 0)

    This is from a Rick Bayless cookbook. It's very easy, and you can be flexible with the ingredients. It takes about 20 min. to make.

    Saute carrot, onion and garlic in a medium sized soup pot.

    Add 2 cans of chicken stock ( I use low-sodium).

    Throw in precooked and cut up chicken (roasted is my fave, but any kind will do).

    Add a drained can of beans (original recipe calls for garbanzos, but pintos or cannelini would work).

    Heat through, then take off the heat and add the juice of one lime.  Add S&P to taste.

    Add the following garnishes--mix and match to your own personal taste:

    avocado
    cilantro
    diced chipotle in adobo
    queso fresco/jack cheese

    Serve with chips or cheese quesadillas. Super easy. Super yummy. Everyone I've ever served it to loves it.

  • some of our (0 / 0)

    favorite fast things are enchiladas, green chile stew, omelets, a macaroni and cheese made with tomato juice, Trader Joe's simmer sauce poured over chicken.  My husband and I both grew up in New Mexico, so we've come up with some of our own simple adaptions of our childhood food--like three- ingredient posole.

  • Ricotta Cheese pasta (0 / 0)

    This is a very simple recipe.

    1 cup ricotta cheese
    1/2 cup grated parmesan cheese
    ~ 1/4 cup milk (I eyeball it, and just go for the right consistency, but it will thin as it is heated)

    That's your base.

    Add:
    basil - fresh (1/4 cup or dried (2 tbsp)
    pepper to taste

    may want some additional adjustment with other herbs, a little onion powder, whatever suits, depends on the particular cheeses and basil.

    heat over low heat until the cheese is melted and you just get the first bubbles. Turn it off immediately - it will curdle if it boils.

    Toss with about 2/3 lb of pasta. I like it with fettucine, but DH likes penne.

    Serve as is or:

    • top with a little more parmesan
    • top with some sliced and browned chicken sausage
    • top with some sliced and browned mushrooms
    • top with some cut up tomatoes
  • Chicken and Apple Sausage (0 / 0)

    Is one of my basic fall-backs. Works great on any simple pasta or with beans or a simple rice dish.

  • Cook ahead meals... (0 / 0)

    Has anyone done the whole "cook ahead" thing?  There are books dedicated to filling your freezer full of homemade food for a family for a month.  Most of the recipes are stuff that I don't find particularly healthy, however I sort of do that with my own food.  I'll make a huge pan of enchiladas and then freeze them in family/dinner sized portions.  I do the same with spaghetti sauce, chili, stew, and soups.  I find this helps take the pressure off figuring out what's for dinner all the time... especially when the kids have soccer practice.  

  • I love all these ideas (0 / 0)

    One of my usual 'we don't have anything to eat' dinners is some combination of breakfast foods. But I did that last night -- blueberry pancakes, scrambled eggs and fruit salad.

    Our usual meals are pasta with pesto & salad [I used the storebought pesto and whatever pasta I have, usually penne]; build your own taco salad [lettuce, tomatoes, cheese, kidney/pinto/black beans, avocado if I have it, sometimes chicken or ground beef and sometimes no meat, tortilla chips]; homemade pizza with mushrooms & bell peppers on the grownups' pizza and either just cheese, or ham and pineapple on the kids'. The honey mustard chicken I make is 1/4 cup of honey and 1/4 cup of dijon mustard brushed on boneless, skinless chicken breasts or tenders. Bake til done.  

  • stick-in-the-oven meals (0 / 0)

    I love oven-baked meals and meals you can prepare in quantity and dole out.

    If your family likes fish, foil-bake it. Preheat the oven to 400 degrees Put whatever fish filets you like in tin foil (enough to wrap around and crimp the edges). Put lemon or lime slices, 1/4 cup water or wine or water and wine around, herbs on top. Fold up the foil and crimp the edges. Take whatever veg you want to go with, and put them in a similar package (minus the wine). You can even steam potatoes this way too, although I never have. Put the foil packages in the oven. I find that it takes about 20 minutes for our meal, but it may take longer for a larger family.

    I also love roasted veg, because they're so versatile. Tomatoes, eggplant, zucchini, peppers, squashes, whatever's in the fridge or looks good. In summer, it all goes on the BBQ. In winter, I broil it. In either case, slice veg, brush with olive oil (or, as is more usually the case, glug on some olive oil because you can't be bothered finding a brush), put under the broiler. Turn occasionally. Pull veg out when they're brown on top; some veg takes longer than others. You can put veg through pasta, rice, quinoa, whatever starch is to hand; make fun sandwiches with cheese (I love roasted veg with brie, but anything's good); serve with bread and hommus; yadda yadda yadda. They'll also last in the fridge for a couple of days, so you can roast up in quantities and just forget about them.

  • Dinner A'fare (0 / 0)

    I'm pretty anal about planning dinners, but I really like to cook and I eat way too much when we eat out, so I'm ok with it.  I generally plan dinners for a week, and rearrange them depending on our schedules.  But I DO go to Dinner A'fare once every few months and fill up my freezer.  They're great for nights when I just don't have my act together.  And my backup meal is usually polenta with sundried tomatoes, onions and mozzarella.  

    • or 'Let's Dish' (0 / 0)

      That's what we've got. Also "Get Cookin."

      These are great places to make meals that you can store in your freezer.

      Google 'take and bake meals' for a store like this in your state. makeandtakeatoz.com has an abbreviated list of these places.

  • Late to thread (0 / 0)

    sorry, but you must check out Expats Kitchen  for awesome and nutritious recipes. I'm surprised I'm the only one to mention it as she's posted some great diaries on this site.

  • Over 70 quick recipes (0 / 0)

    can be found at my site. Check it out here:
    Recipe Index

    Let me know if any of them work well for you.

    Thanks for reading! Expat Chef http://expatriateskitchen.blogspot.com

    by Expat Chef on Fri Sep 21, 2007 at 01:41:41 PM PDT

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