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Gestational Diabetes

Fri Jun 01, 2007 at 12:37:32 PM PDT

Well, so much for an uneventful pregnancy. After having elevated levels from my 1-hour glucose tolerance test, I moved on to the 3-hour test. This in itself didn't worry me a bit. The same thing happened with my first pregnancy, and the 3-hour levels came back normal. So, this time around I was more annoyed at the inconvenience of hanging out in the waiting room for 3 hours than anything else. Actually, I was pretty nonchalant -- even telling my best friend that it wasn't going to stop me from having a donut the day I found out about the 1st test. Oops.

I got the news yesterday via voice mail that the 3-hour levels came back elevated this time, which was officially a diagnosis of gestational diabetes (my midwife's words). Now I am scheduled to see an endocrinologist on Monday, and from what it sounds like, I'll be visiting him as much as my midwives. After a restless sleep last night, I woke up for good at 4:30 this morning worrying about all sorts of things...does this mean I'm going to have a giant baby?...does it mean that all of the interventions are going to snowball into a c-section?...will I get Type 2 diabetes in 5-10 years like 20-50% of women with gestational diabetes?...What on earth am I supposed to have for breakfast?!

My worries have been calmed a little since I was able to find a sample menu online for a gestational diabetic, and I am choosing to take this as a Brick-on-the-Head Moment (having obviously ignored the Pebble-on-the-Head). This has been my wake up call that there are changes needed in my lifestyle, and so far today has gone ok with eating better. But, I was wondering if anyone here had experience with GD, and if there was any advice that could be passed along -- especially in dealing with the doctors. My main concern is that it's going to become a situation where my previously mellow pregnancy is now very medical. The diet and exercise part is under my control, so I know I can handle that.

Any tips are appreciated!

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  • GDM (0 / 0)

    Sorry you have to deal with this. I had it with my first - controlled it with diet and exercise. Second, I had to start 4x daily insulin injections upon a positive HPT! Get thee to a dietician who specializes in GDM and you'll get all the nutritional support, including menus and tips and tricks, you'll need. I had to record daily food intake and blood sugars (I had to check my fasting sugar, and post-meal sugars with each pregnancy. Finger sticks are a pain in the ass, but not too painful. )

    No, you will not have a gigantic baby if you control your sugars. Eat three meals plus three snacks daily - it's like a reduced carb diet. I did it as a vegetarian and it was no problem. Exercise helps lower sugars, too, so it's good to go for a walk after meals. You'll get lots of growth scans - done by the perinatologist - and, yes, the pregnancy will be medicalized. With both my kids the ultrasounds showed the babies bigger than they actually were...so go with your 'gut' on size as they will most likey want to induce you a week or so early. My first was 8 pounds 13 oz, my second was 8 pounds 4 oz (the perinatologist thought he was going to be +10 pounds but I knew he was wrong!).

    You are indeed at increased risk to develop Type 2, so diet and exercise are going to be key for you for the rest of your life...you can most likely avoid it if you are a healthy weight and exercise regularly. Have regular HbA1c blood tests to be sure (that measures blood sugar control over a three month period - I have on every 6 months now).

    Eggs for breakfast with one piece of toast (butter, no jam).

    Let me know if you have any specific questions.

    • Induction (0 / 0)

      I'm almost more afraid of induction than the c-section. My cycle is long, so I know my real due date should be about 4 days later than what my LMP due date is. My daughter was born 4 days "late" according to the LMP DD. So, I am not going to go along with any induction before Aug. 13 willingly. Because I have midwives, I am hoping this is easier than if it was my OB/GYN.

      I like to go for walks, and can still do light biking. The diet will be the hard part for a little while -- I need to break a decade-long cycle of some bad habits. But, I know that in the long run I will be so much better off from having to change those habits. Shallow moment here -- we're going to Hawaii with my whole family 6 mos after the baby comes, and I was already stressing about how I was going to get swimsuit-ready by then! This new way of eating will really help.

      • good luck with the diet (0 / 0)

        I would be curious to hear what kind of changes you are needing to make.  That is definitely an area where I could stand to improve as well.

        I don't have any personal experience with gd.  My SIL had it with her first and not with her second, and 15 years later she is still diabetes-free.  I hope your outcome is just as good as hers!  

      • I had inductions (0 / 0)

        Both of my children would probably still be in there if I hadn't had them.  I honestly can't tell you what non-induction labor is supposed to be like but I didn't have any problems.  We tried gentler induction methods but nothing started happening until I got some pitocin in me and even then it took forever for the stuff to work.  The l&d nurses at the hospital told me that from their perspective labor is labor and the pitocin/induction horror stories are kind of like wives' tales.  I've seen several birth shows on cable and I know I didn't have it anywhere near as bad as I've seen some women have it in labor.  So it won't necessarily snowball into a c-section and even if it does I don't think you should believe the c-section hype either.  I can remember being told in my childbirth classes that c-section babies usually won't or can't nurse but I know several that did just fine nursing.

        Anyway, labor is so unpredictable.  It's probably healthiest to take it as it comes and not idealize any one kind of birth.

  • I had it too... (0 / 0)

    Please don't panic, you'll do great.

    I checked my sugars before each meal and did a very careful diet.  I second the good nutritionist recommendation.  I couldn't exercise due to a high risk pregnancy but my GD was completely controlled with diet.  Our little girl was perfectly healthy and of a normal weight.

    As for the risk of developing diabetes later on -- take this in with all of your other risk factors.  I, for example, do not have a strong family history of Type II diabetes and am actually quite slender.  I plan on watching my weight and staying active, but I don't lose sleep over it.

    Make sure you find out whether they care about monitoring your fat intake.  Sometimes with GD, unlike regular type II diabetes, they don't really worry so much about fat -- just lots of carbs on their own.  I did high protein & fiber breakfasts with lower carbs, lunch & dinner had more carbs but still balanced with protein and mid-morning & afternoon snacks, equally balanced between carb & protein (apple & cheese, peanut butter & bread).

    • Checking blood sugars. (0 / 0)

      I did this, too, and found it very helpful.  I also kind of enjoyed it in a strange obsessive/compulsive kind of way.  Gave me a great sense of control.

      • Did you have to get a monitor? (0 / 0)

        I'm going to get all these answers Monday, but did you need one of those Monitors that are advertised on TV? Or was it some other system?

        • Yes (0 / 0)

          a monitor - mine is like one from TV. I got it free from the perinatology team (nurse, dietician, etc. on that team).

        • borrowed them each time... (0 / 0)

          my husband has always worked in the healthcare field so I was always able to borrow one from his workplace.  

          I used different models each time, it seemed like, but they were all VERY easy to use and I'm sure the models now are even more convenient.  Insurance will usually pay for one if your doctor believes it necessary.  I would insist...helps so much to have that feed back after each meal.  

          I would start out testing about 6 times a day...after awhile, only about three times daily, usually about an hour after a meal.  I was never totally successful at the "five small meals" a day...for me, I just cut down the size of lunch and dinner and added snacks.

    • And.... (0 / 0)

      certainly keep an eye on risk factors for developing type two diabetes.  Unfortunately, it is common in my family, and I am now a "border-line" diabetic with insulin resistence.  I am not over weight and watch my diet carefully.  My doctor has actually remarked that doing so for 12 years has probably kept me from developing full blown diabetes so far.  

  • I had gestational diabetes (0 / 0)

    with almost all of my pregnancies.  Always able to control it through diet.  After being diagnosed with it the first time, I quickly found out how much better I felt with the diet change!  My energy levels were much more even and heartburn and indigestion were GREATLY reduced.  

    Don't let a doctor treat you as if you are a tragedy waiting to happen.  This wasn't something that caused me to change my delivery plans greatly...ruled out a planned homebirth, but other than that, nothing changed.  Not interventions during labor, no drugs, etc.  Very natural.

    My babies were on the large side, but not unbelievabley-too-large.  The were mostly between 8 and 9 lbs and I tended to deliver two to three weeks early.  They would have been larger had I gone to my due date, but I guess they decided to come on their own when they reached a certain weight.

    A couple of my babies did have low blood sugar at birth.  This is common with gestational diabetes, however, its easily remedied.  In a small, very "low-tech" hospital, it was remedied by giving my daughter a bottle of glucose water.  In a larger medical center, a neonataloligist was called in just so she could order an IV to drip the glucose into my baby over the course of two hours.  They slipped that one on me....its not something I would agree to, but that's what you get when you neo-natalogists on staff.

    • Yeah (0 / 0)

      I'm giving birth at a hospital, and though they have midwives, they will have every "precaution" ready. With #1, there was meconium in the fluid, so they were already nervous. Thankfully the midwives let me push for 3 hours. My OB/GYN came in at the end with forceps (Avery was face up), and there was a team of something like 5-7 specialists waiting there. They took her right away to clear up her lungs, and that was it, but I know that with #2 if there is any hint of a complication they'll be all over the place.

      • And the good news for you (0 / 0)

        is that second deliveries are usually easier!  Honestly, if you are going to be at a hospital, there is really no reason to change your birth plan.  I didn't...ofcourse, with two I barely made it to the hospital in time to deliver and another came at home despite the best laid hospital plans.  All were fine other than a little low blood sugar with a couple of the babies.  

        I was even allowed to take them home early...within a few hours, usually.  They did advise me to watch them for signs of hypoglycemia while waiting for my mild to fully come in.  Not difficult to spot...babies get lethargic, difficult to keep awake and a little floppy.  If it looks like this could be happening, a bottle of glucose water remedies it very quickly.  Never had it happen to any of my babies after the initial hypoglycemia they had at birth.

    • when in doubt (0 / 0)

      you come up with great, reassuring, practical advice, tjb! I love that.

      • Why thank you! (0 / 0)

        You know, you have seven kids, and sooner or later you start feeling like just about everything imaginable has happened to you...and each time I start thinking that, there's always something new that I never even considered before.

  • Wow -- what a great thing (0 / 0)

    to have all these terrific moms who have been there and are able to give advice in the blink of an eye.

    I have no experience with this other than watching a friend go through it, so no advice to give. I just continue to love the fact that you can post a question and within a few hours have such a great, supportive response.

    as my 10 year olds would say, MotherTalkers rock!

    • So true! (0 / 0)

      I debated posting the diary for a day, then decided I needed some advice. This is the place to come for quick answers and the best kind of information -- from people who have been there! I have already gotten more information than I was able to find in any of my books!

  • Don't worry about the size! (0 / 0)

    With both of my pregnancies I managed to stay gd free and then went on to have the largest children on my pregnancy boards.  Definitely take care of the diabetes but it's not guarantee that you will have a monster baby like me.

    Oddly enough, with this pregnancy they are going to check me more frequently for gd which I find weird as I managed to have huge children without it.  When I asked if there was anything else to be done about the size, my midwife suggested that maybe I am built to carry large children as my labors and deliveries were relatviely easy-not really what I was hoping to hear.

    Anyway, if you have a large child after all, make sure that you are in a practice that will let you take the delivery in the direction you would like.  Mine has a non-intervention policy as much as possible and I delivered a 12lb 3.6 oz baby with hardly a tear.

    • Holy...! (0 / 0)

      12-3.6???!! You're amazing. Another example of why having a midwife is great. My friend is half-Samoan, and is a big woman married to a really big man. They told her that her baby was going to be 13 lbs when they checked her toward the end, so they just did a scheduled c-section. His real size? 10lbs.  

      • For my 2nd (0 / 0)

        they wanted me to schedule a section because of that silly assumption. My OB was surprised when I flat out refused but was ok with it in the end.

      • My babies always felt larger (0 / 0)

        in the womb than they actually were.  The last one was the only one in which the predictions were actually accurate.  My babies had big heads and were long.  Guess they were kinda longer and leaner and without being able to see them or weigh them this made them feel larger than they were.

      • That happened to my cousin (0 / 0)

        She is fairly large.  Her OB insisted that her baby looked like it was going to be abnormally large and pushed her into having a c-section.  She was terrified about having some kind of monster baby and her little girl ended up being 7 lbs.  

        Six months later, my second son was ready to be born and I was given the option to schedule an induction when the ultrasound the day after his due date estimated that he would be 11 lbs.  My OB and the midwife told me that it was probably a high estimate and that the baby was likely around 10 lbs but it was actually a lowball.  They don't know.

        My second child was a much easier labor and delivery than the first in spite of the size.  He and his brother are still fairly large for their ages so I think they're just going to be big boys.

    • Same here... (0 / 0)

      10lb 14.8oz.  I didn't have GD, but I did have a midwife who helped me have a birth with as few interventions as possible.  I also didn't have an episiotomy and didn't tear.  My midwife did perineal massage during labor, which I think helped immensely.  My birth was not "perfect"... I had to have pitocin because my labor wouldn't progress.  It is possible to birth a large baby with few interventions if you have a good support system.  

      "If it's not Scottish, it's crap!" ~Mike Meyers

      by 1plain1peanut on Sun Jun 03, 2007 at 08:01:40 AM PDT

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  • I was borderline with my first (0 / 0)

    Flunked the one-hour test, passed the three-hour test, so I didn't have to deal with any diet restrictions. My daughter was 7 pounds 6 ounces.

    Then, I somehow conceived and gave birth to her gargantuan sister four years later -- 9 pounds 1 ounce! Neither her dad nor I are huge people -- in fact he's quite thin and I'm quite short. The GD test for her had come back normal, but I still wonder if I didn't have a touch of it -- there's just no history of big people in either of our families. But our little one has never been little -- 99th percentile all through her infancy, and as a 4-year-old people are always asking me when she's turning 6! I say, "after she turns 5."

    Not sure if this has been any value to you, except to say that who the heck knows with these tests. I will say my one friend who definitely had GD had to follow the diet and thought it was great: "Everyone should be eating this way," she said. Good luck to you and your pregnancy!

    • Hi in IL (0 / 0)

      Are you managing the cicada noise? It's deafening on our side of the area. My pregnancy was the same the first time, even my baby's weight -- 7.6. I'm also only 5'2", so now I am a little nervous! : ) I was only 5.13 when I was born, so I was surprised that Avery was over 7lbs.

      • oooooooh the cicadas! (0 / 0)

        I live in Evanston, and yes, "deafening" would be a good word for them! They and their exoskeletons are everywhere. They were kinda cool the first couple of days, but I'm getting a little tired of them and their beady red eyes, staring at us from every branch and tree limb. One got into our house today and creeped my older daughter out. Good thing the little one didn't see it ... she's bug-phobic.

        I remember being 8 two cycles ago, and being terrified of them ... of course it didn't help that the older boys in the neighborhood were putting them in glass jars and chasing me down the street with them! Once every 17 years is enough, I'd say!

        • Kindergarten and cicadas (0 / 0)

          Our kindergarten field trip was to the Brookfield Zoo in 1972.  Those damn cicadas were everywhere!  I remember all the kids freaking out.  

          I lived in the Evanston area as a young child and then our family moved out to the 'burbs... Hanover Park, right before I started kindergarten.  I now live in Ohio and try to get out to Chicago every other year.  I still have family out there and love to visit the museums and go to a Cubs game.  :-)

          "If it's not Scottish, it's crap!" ~Mike Meyers

          by 1plain1peanut on Sun Jun 03, 2007 at 08:06:10 AM PDT

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  • You can beat it with diet and exercise (0 / 0)

    I had GD - my numbers were terrible - not even close to borderline. I had a very strict yet supportive set of nutritional people who put me on a diet called Sweet Success. I believe it is a "franchise" of a program - in CA at least. Absoluetly informative with concrete diet plans, very easy to follow, available immediately on the phone if my numbers were off, frequent follow up visits. You need to find people like that.

    My doctor did get nervous and wanted to induce about a week or two early - but I talked her through it and we didn't induce. She did say first thing, absolutely no suction or whatever it's called, which did indeed lead to a c-section in my case. My baby was 8 lbs 11 oz, but the thing is, even with the extra ultrasounds you get, there is no good way to know the size of the baby. My doc said the meausurements can be up to 20% off, so there is no real way to know the baby's size. I went with a fetal monitor, and had a big distress incident which put my doc on alert. She didn't freak though and I labored for at least an hour after that. I wasn't willing to do without the monitor, and this oftentimes leads to c-sections, as you know. Anyone's guess whether any given c-section is "unnecessary."

    My doc and all the diet people assumed I would end up on insulin. That just made me more determined to beat it with diet, which I did. The diet itself is insanely healthy - and it became kind of a fun challenge, to keep the numbers within normal. Weird but true. I use the diet now as my gold standard diet. I learned a ton about nutrition and my own physiology, which was an unexpected bonus.

    Intense stress and anxiety have a negative impact on blood sugar, so if you find yourself having sleepless nights or long bouts of anxiety, ask for a referral for counseling in addition to diet and exercise.

    It'll all be fine. And the finger sticks don't even hurt - half the time I couldn't even feel them.

    RachelD

    • Good to know (0 / 0)

      The finger sticks were making me a little nervous, but it's good to know that anxiety can affect blood sugar. I'll remember that on monday when I get tested again! I'm glad to hear you had success avoiding an induction, I plan to hold out on that one, within reason, with my caregivers.

  • Thanks, all (0 / 0)

    Thank you so much for your comments! There is a lot of good advice, and I feel less intimidated by what is around the corner. Like my last pregnancy, I have been attended by my hospital's midwife group. It's through the OB/GYN practice, so it is more of a medical slant than other midwives might be. But, I feel like it is a happy medium, and all of the midwives have been great (I'm convinced if it weren't for the midwife I had during my delivery, I would have ended up with a c-section the first time). I just wish one of them would have mentioned that I should be monitoring my diet specifically because of my elevated 1-hour glucose with pregnancy #1 -- instead I was told with #1 that the 1-hour has a high-rate of false positives, leading me to think that it was an error, not an omen. Obviously we're supposed to eat really healthy when pregnant anyway, but in reality...I'm sure I'm not the only one who ever indulged in the wrong foods while pregnant. The hardest part for me is eating small amounts often. Between working from home and caring for my 3yo, I am usually eating what is quick and easy. Hence, here I am.

    I've been following a sample diet I found online, and eating every 2-3 hours for the past 2 days. Ironically, now that I am eating more often I am hungry all the time! My appointment with the diabetes doc on monday will hopefully provide me with a real menu. My goal is to eat really well in any case, so that when I get blood drawn again on Monday he'll say it is very minor and will be easy to manage if I keep it up. One of my midwives said that some people see him just a few times and then don't have to go back because they have managed the blood sugars -- so, my goal is to be one of those people!

    Thanks again everyone!

  • asdf (0 / 0)

    Girl, I am so sorry about the gestational diabetes. It sucks to be a pregnant woman and not know what to eat! (or eat what you crave.)

    FWIW, I gained an enormous amount of weight in a short period of time with Ari -- 17 pounds in one month! -- and my midwife thought it was GD. It wasn't, but she still put me on a diet, taking away all the things that I like: Mexican food (too much lard in the food), ice cream and other sweets. I would still sneak in the occasional chocolate chip cookie, but it was VERY limited -- like a weekend sort of thing. She made me eat my greens, which I hate. From then on, my weight gain was more incremental.

    I had two large babies, and the deliveries were both normal vaginal ones.

    Keep us updated...I hope the rest of the pregnancy is as smooth as possible. (BTW, I can't wait to see you all in Chicago this summer! I am hoping the baby arrives early so that I can see him or her. :-)

    • I want to echo someone above... (0 / 0)

      about smaller meals -- five of them -- in the day, rather than three big ones. When I switched over-- at my midwife's recommendation -- there were no more 17-pound months.

      • It seems to help (0 / 0)

        My problem has always been that I'll go too long without eating, then eat a huge meal because I am ravenous. Today went better than yesterday -- it seemed like I was hungry all day even though all I did was eat! But, it will help me to break some lifelong habits -- for example, if I can only have ONE cookie, I won't even bother. I'll want 10. Getting used to not having sweets will be good for me for the long haul.

        The crazy thing is that even with the bad eating habits, I stayed at about 25lbs with Avery and so far have been about the same with this one.

        We're looking forward too seeing you guys in August, too! It's been ages since we saw you it seems (it's defintely been too long since we've been in your area).  I'm excited to see little Eli!

      • 17 lb month! (0 / 0)

        Wow!  With my two previous pregnancies I had a seven pound gain month right before the 20 week ultrasound.  I heard about that from my midwife with the first child but then she didn't blink when I had the same gain at the same time with the second.  I am trying to behave myself this time but I have a feeling that it may be how my kids and I grow and it will happen again.

        With my first pregnancy, I was sent to the nutritionist after that gain and she was really puzzled as to why I gained so much as I was already following most of her suggestions.  Of course I was no angel but I had some habits that were apparently saving graces.

      • that worked for me, too (0 / 0)

        particularly after 7 months, when my stomach felt absolutely crammed because of Jess's size. Smaller, more frequent meals also kept the indigestion under control (urgh - reflux). Couldn't tell you how much I gained during the pregnancy; all my midwife visits were in our house, and our midwife wasn't concerned about weight gain (unless it accompanied with an unusual urine sample/water retention). But, I could see the tips of my toes until the day I delivered, so I guess that was a sign of something.

        Really sorry to hear abour your news, Jenna. I totally hear you on the whole portion control thing, too. I'm a total sugar addict and eating no sweets is the only way I can really make sure I don't go overboard!

        • Sweets (0 / 0)

          for diabetics can get you through a GDM pregnancy. I'm a sugar addict, too, so the sugar free chocolate was a must. I had to calculate the carbs into my daily plan, but it was totally doable and saved my sanity.

          • Puddin' (0 / 0)

            I'm allowed a sugar free pudding in place of a glass of milk with lunch or dinner, and a diet soda with lunch. So, those two things have been enough "treats" for me to get through the weekend. I'm eager to see the specialist this afternoon to find out what I will really need to be eating for the next 10 weeks.

        • I've noticed the difference (0 / 0)

          Just since Saturday, the reflux and heartburn has been cut in half. Before that, I was at the point that I wouldn't eat dinner because anything I ate after 4pm would be coming up when I slept. So, that in itself is a good thing.

  • UPDATE (0 / 0)

    I met with the diabetes specialist today, and I came away feeling much better. He was very laid back and said that I did not need to do the monitor every day unless the diet doesn't end up working. I'm seeing a dietician on Wednesday, so that will be really helpful since I have just been following a sample diet I found online. He echoed all of the risks that have been talked about here, but said that if I am vigilant with eating well, none of those risks are likely. They'll test my blood sugars once a week for a few weeks, and if all is going well, that will be it (though I do need to maintain the diet through the birth).

    Thanks for all of the support!

    • that's really great news (0 / 0)

      I'm glad your specialist was alert but pragmatic; who needs the unnecessary stress of extra monitoring?

      On the plus side, the diabetic diet sounds really healthy; who among us couldn't do with cutting out sweets, eating smaller portions and other goods stuff like that?!

      Pls keep us informed!

      • Frustration (0 / 0)

        I wish my midwife had been as realistic! She basically said I would be induced on my due date because women with GD can have larger babies. I relayed that was only if I didn't keep to a strict diet (which is what the diabetes doc said, that following the diet pretty much would eliminate that risk), and she replied "yeaahhhh" like it didn't matter what I was saying. I also explained that I had a problem with being induced on my due date because it is based on my LMP, not on conception which would put my DD at 5 days later. She said they wouldn't let me go past 40.5 weeks (based on the LMP still), and I left very perturbed at being told they wouldn't "let" me make that decision. There are 5 midwives in the practice and I see them all, so each visit I'll have to reiterate that I won't be induced before Aug. 12th. Because they are in the hospital's OB/GYB practice they are more medically oriented than other midwives, and they follow the OBs standards with these types of things. And the OBs just care about liability, not the reality that stats show I won't have a significantly larger baby than normal...anyway! You can tell I'm a little fired up : ).

        • Good luck (0 / 0)

          to you. The medical establishment, midwives included, are very inclined to induce. You're lucky she said your due date! My (two different) OBs wanted to induce a week early. I, too, have a longer cycle so their LMP dating was wrong. Stick to your guns. They can't FORCE you to admit yourself for an induction and they can't refuse to deliver you. It is such a pain on top of everything else you have to deal with when you have GD. BTW,  have you had a follow up test yet? If so, how are your numbers?

        • My GD wasn't severe, (0 / 0)

          and I did a decent job with diet.  My babies weren't that large...my daughter who came three weeks early was 8 and a half lbs.  My last daughter came right on her due date and was just short of nine pounds. The rest tended to be right around eight pounds even though they tended to come a bit early.

          I'm not sure how big your last baby was, but its important to remember that you've had a baby...you don't have an "untried pelvis".  

          My midwife with my last baby was a bit, um, flighty...but when it came down to it, she just told me a month before my daughter's due date that it was her responsibility to tell me that women in my circumstances would normally be offered induction at that point as I had GD and other questionable medical things going on.  I declined.  I did, however, have a home healthcare nurse come visit me every other day for the last two months of my pregnancy.  I think this eased her need to feel as if she needed to be more forceful in her suggestions.

        • I can't believe that (0 / 0)

          With my boys, the midwives did everything in their power not to medically induce even though I was late with non-gd feaking huge babies.  Both times it reached the point where we actually did induce due to size but that wasn't without reason.  

          Can you ask them to start using "natural" induction methods like stripping your membranes or starting evening primrose oil supplements in the weeks immediately preceding your due date?  Mine did that.  While they failed as induction methods for me, they were not as intrusive as a full blown hopsital induction and at least got the ball rolling.  Maybe if you expressed an interest in that they would be willing to take a wait and see approach.

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