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A Bad Day

Thu Dec 27, 2007 at 03:55:56 PM PDT

Oh brother. It's raining and gray outside. My husband took the car to work so I'm stuck at home with the two kids. My closest friend has gone AWOL and I don't know if she's upset with me or just upset in general and needs space. We hosted the neighborhood playgroup this morning and the kids were kind of mean to my son. And, DH has tickets to a basketball game tonight with some friends which means I've got to get everyone fed and into bed tonight solo and then sit on the couch staring at lame television while I think about how I should be working on the computer.

In short, I'm having a sucky day. So how do I cheer myself up? Any thoughts? What do you do when you're having a bad day?

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  • asdf (0 / 0)

    Playgroups can be fun, but I've had many a grumpy, Advil-loaded day afterwards (to get rid of playgroup-induced headache).

    My recipe to get out of a funk is get kids to bed a little early, tidy up, rent a movie.

    Feel better!  

  • I hate bad days. (0 / 0)

    My cure is usually to get outside (unless it's pouring) and get my body moving.  Something about the outdoors makes my mood alter.  But if outside isn't an option, I love a good hot shower (I'm not so much a bath person, but sometimes that feels great too).  Other than that, it sometimes just takes time passing to feel better.  I hope you do soon.

  • I hate those days... (0 / 0)

    And they come in groups for me...so I have bad weeks it seems. I recommend loud music and dancing with the kids. You might not feel like it, but laughing and dancing when you feel miserable can lift your mood a bit. I recommend take away pizza for tonight and a movie. Suspend all rules and make your life easy. If there's a teenager on your street that is bored, pay them a bit of money (they're cheap) to come and entertain the kids for a bit. My next door neighbour's daughter has saved my sanity (and my kids' lives) many a time!

  • We all have bad days (0 / 0)

    SAHM,WAHM, WOHM - whatever your acronym LOLOL

    The main thing that gets me through them is knowing it will eventually end.

    Probably too late now, but in your situation, I would have stayed away from dumb TV and gotten into bed early with a good book.  It always feels very indulgent to me - if DH is here, I feel like I want to talk to him, or should be at least available to talk.

  • Blah day here, too. (0 / 0)

    Still trying to recover from Christmas day...thought I felt well enough to go grocery shopping with my husband this evening.  Not really...and I finished my last batch of books and was expecting my new order in today.  Did they come?  Nooooo.......so, now I'm bored, don't feel like being up and around very much and quite frankly, I'm tired of watching programming all about Pakistan.

  • These usually come (0 / 0)

    in January or February for me.  The holidays are over, and it's gray and cold out.  Not much else happening.  Spring seems sooooo far away.  

    I try to keep as busy as possible.  I've made a pact with myself to try and stay physically active throughout the winter.  I've got a lot of projects lined up-- painting our bedroom and painting some furniture for the kids' rooms.  Hopefully that'll be enough to keep my spirits up.

    I second Karen's recommendation to get outside.  Something about changing your scenery can do wonders.  Even if it is cold and gray out.

    "If it's not Scottish, it's crap!" ~Mike Meyers

    by 1plain1peanut on Thu Dec 27, 2007 at 09:11:55 PM PDT

  • I'm in a funk, too (0 / 0)

    Everyone around me seems to be falling like dominoes, sick with puking and diarrhea (including the baby, at one point). Knock on wood, I've been spared.

    I'm sick of all of them being sick, and I'm sick of the snow -- it's like a BLIZZARD today and it took about 1 1/2 hours to drive only about 20 miles from the country into town to get to work.

    It's just dreary and yucky outside here.

    I plan on trying to sneak out of here early, so I don't have to drive in the blizzard after dark. And then I hope to curl up on the couch with the baby and watch a movie -- something funny.

    I hope you feel better today, Stacey. Cheer up, and know that all of us are standing with you. :)

    • thanks (0 / 0)

      it's a new day and i'm hoping for a better mood. i hope  you do alright in the weather. being snowed in can either be a delight or a real drag (especially if people are pukey.) stay well!

  • My recipe (0 / 0)

    for the bad day blues: a hot cup of tea (or substitute wine/beer etc), a bubble bath after DS goes to bed, and watching a cheesy chick flick that DH has no interest in or a marathon of Bravo or the Food Network.

    If I can't wait until DS goes to bed and dinner still needs to be made I order out and have it delivered! :)

    • sounds good (0 / 0)

      i did take a hot bath last night and watched a movie. i'm still feeling kind of down today, but i'm trying to  do things that cheer me up like writing and exercising.  

      • PNW is tough (0 / 0)

        I'm here too :-)

        Not sure about you, but reading the local news is really pretty disturbing right now.  Sometimes my recipe for fixing a bad day is to read the paper less.  Exercise is great, too.  The beach is beautiful this time of year, although bundling up is key.  Going someplace cheery helps, too - like a kid-friendly coffee shop.

        • oh yeah (0 / 0)

          that story about the six people across the lake - i can't bear to hear or read anything about it. i love the beach this time of year too. and the mountain views are always the best in the winter. but in truth i think my mood is about more than gray skies. the friend piece is really getting me down.

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