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Julia Roberts' Dream Job: SAHM

Mon Nov 05, 2007 at 10:29:20 AM PDT

So, Julia Roberts says her dream job is to be a SAHM

"My dream is to be a highly fulfilled and productive stay-at-home mom and wife," the Oscar-winning actress tells Vanity Fair magazine. "The highest high would be growing our food that I then make, and then composting and growing more -- that kind of circle."

Roberts, 40, says that life would involve having "my own creative outlet, even if it's silly needlework and stuff like that."

Well, I'm not one to lob a volley in the Mommy Wars, but who here really believes her?  Because if it's true, then why does she have two movies coming out?

Seriously, she has more money than she can spend in a lifetime -- $20 million plus per movie really does add up -- so what is stopping her from retreating to her ranch and starting that garden and compost heap?

Sorry, I'll believe her when a few years go by and someone says, "Gee, Julia Roberts hasn't had a movie out in so long.  Wonder what ever happened to her."

And now, I shall return to my [not] dream job!

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  • Yeah, I don't buy it either... (0 / 0)

    I guess she's looking to live the simple life like all of us hahaha.

    Wouldn't it be nice if we all had choices like her?  I can't actually picture her in the muck of a garden with compost and all that.  

    "If it's not Scottish, it's crap!" ~Mike Meyers

    by 1plain1peanut on Mon Nov 05, 2007 at 10:53:07 AM PDT

  • untitled (0 / 0)

    I particularly like the part where she says that she wants to be a "productive" stay-at-home mom by growing her own food and starting that compost heap, because I guess taking care of three kids wouldn't be enough to qualify as productive.  

    Because I'm sure she would fire her multiple nannies when she achieves her dream of living off the land.

    I'm sure she meant well with this, but it's Monday and I'm grumpy.

    • Yeah, kind of reminds me (0 / 0)

      of Marie Antoinette and her Petit Trianon.  Fulfilling some kind of Rousseau-like fantasy of living in peace with nature....all made possible by knowing that high society is just down the road and the coffers are full.

  • She couldn't handle it (0 / 0)

    Our local paper had a feature about someone who did just that.  SAHM and organic farmer.  I admired the woman in the article but it sounds like a very difficult living.

  • I appreciate her (0 / 0)

    And I think she's well meaning and probably a lovely lady.

    But I agree with y'all: if she really wants to do it, there's nothing stopping her but herself.

    In fairness, though, this would be a permanent choice for her. The reality for female actresses is that she would have to make the decision, not just for a couple of years, but for the rest of your life. It's very hard to come back from a hiatus. I don't know how much money she really has, but I can understand not feeling comfortable throwing away your earning power forever.

  • Barbara Kingsolver does it (0 / 0)

    and wrote a book about her life while doing just that....along with 12 other books too.  Has anyone read her new book, titled "Animal, Vegetable, Miracle"?  

    The articles and interviews I've read and heard about Julia seem very real and down-to-earth (pun unintended)...If I remember correctly, I thought she took quite a bit of time off when she became a Mom.  I think it's great that she says her dream job is being home, growing her own food, etc....Don't we all have dreams that we sometimes fulfill and others that we don't?  Sheesh.  Give a gal a break...just because she has money doesn't mean she deserves a lot of slapping around...she's worked all her life.

  • rolled my eyes a bit (0 / 0)

    to be sure. I'd love to be a SAHM with $20m per picture, personal assistants, trainers, housekeepers and probably some form of childcare on tap, too...

    Hey, if that's what her dream looks like, then Julia, baby, live the dream. Good for you. But I still feel snarky!

  • Fine by me (0 / 0)

    I can sympathize, really.  We're far from movie star rich here but I dream of living more simply too.  We could move out of the city and away from our city jobs but we just haven't/most likely won't.  It doesn't stop me from fantasizing a bit about it.

    As for 'silly' needlework she may have been being self-depracating.  I know that knitting isn't 'silly' but mine sure is ;-)

    • I'm with you. (0 / 0)

      I too dream of other ways of life, but I haven't given up mine and I probably won't, though I have the wherewithal to do so.  My life will morph  as my family life changes and I age.  And I already posted above about how I could easily describe any needlework I would pursue as silly, since I don't have an ounce of talent in that area.

      • I do find it interesting (0 / 0)

        that Julia could say this in Vanity Fair magazine and not have this affect her perceived public image one iota. It speaks to the way we've come to view life - at least for the well off, and in theory -  in that there is the ability to morph and be flexible in our definitions of who we are and what drives us. It'll be a real day when the choices available to JR are available to all people across class and race and country... (my Kumbayah statement of the day).

  • maybe she can apprentice with maryjane butters (0 / 0)

    She actually does this and it doesn't sound too glamourous on a daily basis. She was a single mom with a dream, worked really hard, got a little lucky with land, etc. and has built a farm, magazines, etc....

  • Go easy on Julia (0 / 0)

    She seems like a nice lady. Plus, we have the same birthday (though I am ever so much younger!).

    Lots of people have dreams we'd never choose to fulfill. One of my dreams is to have a hobby farm with miniature goats. I love miniature goats. DH, alas, does not share this vision so it will remain just that--money issues aside. Another dream I have is to become an OR nurse. But the reality of going back to school? Bleck. So I give full permission to Julia to have dreams she never chases. It's fun to have a fantasy life.

    Also, I do a lot of silly crafting, like beading and painting. My craft work is silly because I am not very good, it's just an outlet. Other people do much better work and it is definitely not silly.

    No need to get bent out of shape.

  • Hey, I wish we could rate comments, here. (0 / 0)

    Seriously, there are some funny comments on this site, and I'm just lurking and rating at DailyKos these days. Rating is sort of short cut commenting, I'm finding.

    If I was a wealthy movie star, it'd be nice to play SAHM once in a while, but only when I feel like it.

  • I do know how she feels (0 / 0)

    When you have young kids, the idea of focusing on motherhood for at least a few years and not having to clutter up your life with earning a paycheck is incredibly appealling, or at least has been to me. But for most of us, this is an unattainable fantasy.
    Julia Roberts can definitely afford to be a SAHM, and if that's what she want to do -- and who could blame her, with three little ones in tow? -- more power to her. Yeah, she'll go back to making movies and big money in the future, but she will be able to do that when she's good and ready, and not be forced by economic necessity back to the workplace way too early, crying as she leaves her kids at the child-care center and getting flak from supervisors about paying attention to our kids, like some of us have done.
    In a way, she's lucky. But also in a way, she's made her own luck. I'm sure she's worked really hard on her career, and is now reaping the well-earned benefits.

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