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I took my husband's name because mine is difficult. And I don't like it that much. His is nice and simple. If I'd married someone with more consonants than vowels, I might have kept mine. I still use mine professionally, to keep the continuity of my publications, but otherwise I just use his. Mind you, I use Dr. and not Mrs. That "Missus" has always annoyed the crap out of me. I was Ms. before I was Dr.
The only thing that annoys me more than "Mrs.(husband's last name)" is "Mrs. (husband's first and last name)". What? I suddenly lost my first name too? I think not!
by aussieyank on Fri May 09, 2008 at 05:28:29 PM PDT
I'll have to remember not to do that on the Xmas card for 2008. I didn't do that last year, did I? From memory, I put your name on the package.
My mom raised me to address families like that.
by Rachel on Fri May 09, 2008 at 09:49:40 PM PDT
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You used my name. And I'm actually pretty hard to offend.
I feel like we've had this conversation before...
by aussieyank on Fri May 09, 2008 at 10:27:28 PM PDT
it comes up in different contexts - Christmas cards angst, politics of married names discussions, etc.
by Rachel on Fri May 09, 2008 at 11:13:58 PM PDT
nothing makes me more stabby than Mrs. Hubby Lastname. GAH!!!!!!!!! DH's grandmother is set in her ways and she always uses it on cards and I say "DH, your grandma thinks you're a woman again."
What is weird is that she is divorced and STILL prefers "Mrs. HisName LastName". Come on.
by lilianna28 on Mon May 12, 2008 at 12:32:50 PM PDT
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