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  • We're doing all right... (0 / 0)

    Spent the day at my parents' today, so tomorrow, I'm doing absolutely nothing.  

    Can you possibly manage to take a couple of days off this coming week?  Sometimes, just a few days can really make a difference.  If you're not feeling better, maybe your cardiologist can temporarily up the dosage of your medication.  We do what we can to get through.

    I'm glad it went well for your husband.  I wish him a continued uneventful recovery.  Glad  you found a surgeon that you could both be comfortable with.  Sometimes, we find these doctors in the least likely of places!

    by tjb22 on Sat May 10, 2008 at 08:36:04 PM PDT

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    • sigh.... (0 / 0)

      I have a busy work coming up at work and was sort of counting on the recovery being easier than it has been so far.  We just got back from Urgent Care because he had a temp of 99.5.  I know it doesn't constitute a fever, but he was running around 98.3 the whole time we were in the hospital and the wound is puffy and a little red.  I guess you could say I'm paranoid about post-op infections.  Then while we were there he remembered his urine looked a little red just before we left the house, and sure enough there's a "moderate" amount.  So we're going back at 6 a.m. Tuesday, before I go to work, for a follow-up. All the surgeons we interviewed really made it sound like a very simple recovery, now we're told DH can't drive for 4 weeks.  Gah.  

      And I was feeling sorry for a single mom who was having a really hard time taking time off work to bring her kid into the office, so I offered to go to her house Tuesday evening and eyeball him.  I am regretting that, now.  

      Waaaa Waaaa Waaaa.... that's enough whining for now!

      Thanks for the good wishes.  I hope you enjoy a very relaxing Mother's Day doing nothing but resting and basking in your children's love :)

      by mamacita on Sun May 11, 2008 at 12:08:51 AM PDT

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      • take care of yourself, Mamacita! (0 / 0)

        Wish I lived in the neighborhood... would love to do something like cook y'alls a dinner or four for the next week.

        Sorry to hear that DH is spiking a fever, but hope it can be contained. Hope you make it through the week without exhausting yourself. Watch out for yourself!

        by Rachel on Sun May 11, 2008 at 03:20:49 PM PDT

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      • Oh....its always something, isn't it? (0 / 0)

        Urinary infections post-op are fairly common...and at least you caught it pretty early.  And you gotta love the criteria used by the medical profession...."simple" can mean something very different than what we understand it to mean.  Rather like the neurosurgeon telling my husband and I that his mother was "fine" and "doing well" a week past surgery despite the fact that she was in a coma and on a ventilator.  

        And you deserve to whine a little! Consider it your Mother's Day gift to yourself.  I really haven't whined today, but then again, this is the first time I've even been up!  

        by tjb22 on Sun May 11, 2008 at 04:12:31 PM PDT

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