for the Hempel Family. But just as the Hempels are entitled to express their feelings, Lyn is just as entitled to express hers. I don't think it makes Lyn any less compassionate towards your friends to say what she did. I imagine you must be heartsore for your friends and their children and feeling very lioness in wanting to protect them, but I am sure Lyn did not have a mean intention in writing what she did.