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I had nothing but lovely people here in Australia. Men (and women) would constantly offer to help me with my groceries, carry them to the car for me, put them in. They'd instantly leap to their feet when I got on the train. It got to the point where I felt like I had to say "I'm okay!", just because everyone assumed that I needed help. But it was nice.
In London (we traveled there when I was about six months pregnant...and definitely pregnant), people were really good at avoiding eye contact, just in case you might need help. I actually had an 80 year old woman on the Underground leap out of her seat to give it to me when no one else would. When I thanked her but refused, she started yelling at all the men surrounding us, telling them that they should be ashamed of themselves and if their grandmothers could see them, they'd be in huge trouble! :)
by aussieyank on Tue May 06, 2008 at 05:30:46 PM PDT
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One morning when the train was absolutely packed and I was, like, six months on, I was standing next to this woman. The Banker types were studiously avoiding eye contact, so the woman standing next to me suddenly bellowed, "Isn't anyone going to offer you a seat, Luv?" I said, "Oh, I'm sure someone will once they notice me." Nothing. She then repeatedly, more loudly, "This is B*llocks. Isn't anyone going to offer you a seat, LUV?" Someone finally got up. It was so funny!
Aussies are really lovely - when I use the stroller on the tram with Jess, there's usually three or four people who will leap up to help me get it on/off. It's nice.
by Rachel on Tue May 06, 2008 at 05:54:17 PM PDT
At 39 weeks I took the bus midday. Unlike my usual am commute the midday bus was full of very polite senior citizens. So there was a few second mental assessment when I got on about who should give up their seat. When a woman with a cane stood up, I refused the seat, but she just used her cane to poke the able-bodied banker-type across the aisle from her. Worked like a charm!
--R
by Rocky on Wed May 07, 2008 at 06:27:30 AM PDT
people will ignore a pregnant woman, but just try to ignore an older woman with a cane. I dare you!
by Rachel on Wed May 07, 2008 at 04:06:18 PM PDT
I don't have to be old to get one...
by Suzanne77 on Wed May 07, 2008 at 04:45:02 PM PDT
I'm planning on using it as social license to finally say whatever I want, whenever I want!
by Inky on Wed May 07, 2008 at 08:21:11 PM PDT
92 and absolutely shameless. She called me just after I gave birth to Jess and said, "Listen, Rachel, you and [DH] be careful, you know? We didn't have TV after [uncle] was born and it was winter. That's why there's only 15 months between [uncle] and [aunt]." I laughed until my ribs felt like they were going to break.
by Rachel on Thu May 08, 2008 at 01:02:29 AM PDT
by Suzanne77 on Thu May 08, 2008 at 05:07:53 AM PDT
of course I'm biased, but man, she's had an interesting life.
by Rachel on Thu May 08, 2008 at 04:03:59 PM PDT
My 90 yo grandmother always makes snarky comments about the old people at her retirement community. Most of them are 20 years younger than her.
by Rocky on Fri May 09, 2008 at 06:11:09 AM PDT
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