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  • The future for our children (0 / 0)

    I remember when my friend was 8 months pregnant on 9/11/01 and I thought she'd be the last pregnant woman I would know.  Who would bring children into a world where that could happen?  Well, looking at the full kindergarten classrooms at my kids' elementary schools, I'm not sure the birth rate dropped at all in 2002.

    Yes, the environmental damage being caused by humans is overwhelming.  And sad.  And frustrating.  I personally wouldn't bring more children into the world - easy for me to say, I have one healthy child of each gender.  If I had one and wanted another, I would probably do it- but not without reservations.

    Maybe if we get a tough Dem in the White House things will look up for the environment?  And health care for all.  What a boon to all children's futures.

    On a personal note, I am in excruciating pain.  I think I gave myself whiplash.  On Wednesday I was trimming a tree on a ladder, trying to get branches far out of my reach.  Perhaps I over-extended myself, or when a clipping would fall toward my face, I suddenly shifted my head out of the way, all the while trying to keep from falling.  My neck muscles are bitingly painful and stiff, even with round the clock Advil, heat packs, and an old muscle relaxer I had in my medicine cabinet.  The only thing that seems to help is Biofreeze, but only for a few minutes.

    Should I go to a doctor?  This was not caused by "trauma" such as a car crash, so I don't need an X-ray.  I'm afraid all the doc would do is tell me to take Advil and prescribe a muscle relaxer- which I am already doing.

    • Try a chiropractor (0 / 0)

      I would definitely go to a chiropractor for the pain. The relief could very well be immediate.

    • GO to the doctor! (0 / 0)

      It's been a few days, go and don't take that as an answer. Maybe if your insurance allows, bipass all that and go to a licensed chiropractor. Generally they do x-rays and the like there and take you more seriously when you say "this is really painful"

      But go, and quickly, because you do not want to be sitting there on Sunday, move too quickly or something silly like that and find yourself in the ER because there are no doctors!

      • Alas, no insurance for chiropractic care (0 / 0)

        or acupuncture, or massage therapy.  Just a plain ol' HMO.  So a stock answer and a scrip for pills are practically guaranteed.

        I did read this article last month which scared the heck out of me.  It's about the risk for women to have strokes following a chiropractic adjustment or having their hair washed at a salon!

      • I agree (0 / 0)

        The doctor can also make a referral for physical therapy.  DH has back issues and PT made a difference for him as the PT taught him several back stretches and exercices.  So it might help you feel better, faster.

        Jen

        Foster Mom to Little Boy (4/03) and Sister Bear (11/96)

        by MrsPastor on Fri Apr 11, 2008 at 09:49:16 AM PDT

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    • terror sex (0 / 0)

      do you remember the spate of "trend stories" about terror sex in the wake of 9/11? As in, terror was driving people into each other's arms for release and comfort? They predicted a baby boom because of it...not sure whether that ever came to pass.

      MotherTalkers moderator and mom to Maya, a 3.5-year-old firecracker.

      by Erika on Fri Apr 11, 2008 at 08:19:52 AM PDT

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      • funny you should say this (0 / 0)

        Just this weekend, someone told me that there is a boom of kids that are about five years old and younger who were conceived after 9/11. There's a problem of too many kids that age and not enough spaces in local kindergartens here in Seattle.

      • My co-worker (0 / 0)

        My co-worker at the time was married for several years, but she and her husband both had children from previous marriages, so they weren't really considering having their own.  After 9/11, she told me they changed their mind, she immediately got pregnant, and had their daughter in the summer of '02.  So I think it did happen at some level.

        Gus (7/06), Susanna (due 11/08)

        by cynmill on Fri Apr 11, 2008 at 11:59:38 AM PDT

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