Unfortunately, I got in trouble for calling her husband an "idiot," which by the way, is a word I use frequently to describe lots of people, including myself and my own husband at times. But it was definitely the wrong this to say at the time, and I apologized for my insensitivity. But I just really want her to know what she is going through is not normal and she's worthy of better. It's hard to stay quiet when you see a friend going through that. But I'm learning that I'll have to.