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by parentalunit1 on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 08:24:18 AM PDT
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It changes everything. Here are my explanations for some of the indigo characteristics. Guilt doesn't work for my DS b/c he can already think outside of the immediate. Absolute authority? No way! He has to have the explanations for rules. Once he knows why something is important, he'll comply. We know that creative thought is related to intelligence. Smart people know what they need and can communicate it, this is true for adults as well as children. Again, finding better ways of doing things will be related to intelligence. All in a day at our house. One more thing. DS will often know things and we have no idea how. My FIL swears it's the indigo thing. Well, if he's pretty bright and has a good memory, he's picked it up and remembered it. That's all.
"We've GOT to make noises in greater amounts! So, open your mouth, lad! For every voice counts!"
by progressiveinky on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 09:14:50 AM PDT
My son knows so many things that we didn't know he knew and we realized that he fully absorbs any information that he comes into contact with -- documentaries, kids' shows, newspapers, books, radio, people talking, museums, magazines, movies etc.
The fact that he started reading so young also gave him exposure to information in ways his peers didn't have.
It can seem freakish though. I'll never forget the craft project at a festival where they were supposed to decorate a little cardboard hat and he diagrammed the digestive system on one side (from mouth to anus) and a rainforest environment (from floor to emergent layer) on the other side.
Miles and His Favorites: The World As Seen By an Eight Year Old
by Hillary on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 09:19:09 AM PDT
Yesterday Curious George went down a manhole. DS's response was "He's not supposed to go down that hole! There's poopy in there! It goes to the potty!" Not only do I not know how he knew about sewers, but how would he then be able to take knowledge about one manhole situation and then apply it to the new situation at such a young age? BTW, you might be in disbelief about his language at this age (as we all are) but he really talks in complete sentences already.
by progressiveinky on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 10:45:15 AM PDT
The digestive system/rainforest diagram story took place when Miles was 4 1/2.
by Hillary on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 10:59:41 AM PDT
on how to manage/parent him. We are currently adjusting our parenting strategies daily.
by progressiveinky on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 11:06:37 AM PDT
I'm no expert! He's extremely well behaved at school and then tends to let it all out at home.
When your child can spar with you verbally at a peer level but they're still two feet shorter than you, it's a challenge!!
by Hillary on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 11:16:00 AM PDT
Already we get into these matches where we both act incredibly angry and stare eachother down (even though neither of us is angry). It's all about persistence. When he realizes he's been outmatched, he stops pitching his fit in like half a second. Right now he's only 2, so it's easy to outmatch him. Not looking forward to his ability to out strategize me, especially since he'll have more motivation to strategize for what he wants than I will have time to outsmart! I've heard rumors of what it was like raising DH and I'm not looking forward to it!
by progressiveinky on Tue Apr 17, 2007 at 11:28:55 AM PDT
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